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tonight I learned something

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I learned that there is no such thing as love, in the sense of the way we see it as a society today. I have talked to several people (older cupels) and they say that their spouse is there best friend. I and its hard to find people out there that see that the same way i do. Grazi the girl i love or was in my definition of love- as a person that would give up everything at the drop of a hat to help. to the people out there that are asleep i know you will not understand this but she as much as I wish she was awake or even a dreamer she is a sleeper someone who will never see the truth, who will never look at life the way it was meant to be looked at. I hope she will become a dreamer so there is a chance that she will understand why I cant bear to look at her anymore, how i would look over every fault she has because she is truly beautiful. I will never again wipe the tears from her face I will not be the one to pick her up at 4 am i will not be the one…. I am sorry

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Maximina offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (3 minutes after post)

I am not sure I understand. It sounds like you are breaking up with your girlfriend because she does not see the world the way you do. Is this correct?

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jmes028 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (3 minutes after post)

I am lost.

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Breaking The Silence offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Fort Lauderdale, FL, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (7 minutes after post)

I dont know what the last part was about but…

There is such thing as love because thats what basically runs a family is love. Yes we are friends but there is a difference between best friends and love.

I myself love my best friends and hence would do anything for them, there are some other friends I do not feel the same but still keep in contact with them.

Love is what keeps us going.

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ambrutellow offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (3 hours, 6 minutes after post)

I agree that there is no such thing as love. and if there is i do not understand it. its always the people who “love” me that hurt me the most. love does not run a family, obligation does.

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jhscms200 offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (17 hours, 35 minutes after post)

love is what you make of it and yes sometimes you get hurt but than you got to think about this we are all human and yes everyone might feel what love is but if you ask everyone the will all tell you somethinh differnt love is what you build with someone from the ground up and yes there is time ther will be pain and sadnes but the longer you work at it there will be plenty of rewards sometime we dont look at everyone like we should we see a nice looking woman and we think that we are not good enough for her but at the same time she might feel lonely because know one will talk to her. so i realy think there is a bunch of differnt ways and things that we call love and i think if you look inside of you own heart you will one understand what you are looking for.

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1 year, 9 months ago (22 hours, 27 minutes after post)

She is not my girlfriend but she is the only one who i thought understood me, who had a general understanding of the way the path that leads to enlightenment and ascending to the next plan

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jhscms200 offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 day, 12 hours after post)

due you need to tell her how you feel and just get it over with the only thing you are doing is makink more pain ful for yourself

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Maximina offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

Anonymous wrote:
She is not my girlfriend but she is the only one who i thought understood me, who had a general understanding of the way the path that leads to enlightenment and ascending to the next plan

So how does one ascend to the next plan?

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1 year, 9 months ago (2 days, 4 hours after post)

By opening your mind to see things objectively not subjectively. Having total self knowledge. The power to see everything and one thing at once to move beyond our petty human flaws and see that we aren’t perfect and become the Peaceful Warrior

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