friends help: how can i control my own feelings? - Help.com

you can’t control it it’s a sign of love :)

Hi… this same problem is with my boy friend also. But we are very much open each other and direct each other that he says me directly if he doesnot likes any of my behaviour or doing… so do I. Whenever he says, he does not like anything I’ve said and done… then I wont repeat it again.. I’ll be mroe careful next time on…
It ahppens yaar… You trust her and make ehr feel that you wont hurt her in anyways… and by seeing that she also wont hurt you…

You are loving her but loving her without trust will not go any where instead it will build jealousy and argument to the relationship. Talk with her openly that what things you are comfortable for her to do around you and trust each other. Trust is more important.

I had the same issue with my current boyfriend… He stalked one of my acquaintances for months, in hopes that she would go out with him… Now they are just friends and I choose to believe it…but in the previous month, the mere thought of her made me sick to my stomach. I also felt bad for hating her so because she’s really a great person with whom I’d wanted to befriend…
But everyone has feelings for all sorts of people… It’s just how life works, I figure. Even if my boyfriend still has feelings for that girl, I still have light feelings for several other boys as well. But I’m in a relationship with the priority guy! And my guy’s in the relationship with his priority girl. So it doesn’t matter.
In your case, you’ll have to learn that it’s okay for people to like more than one person at the same time. At least she’s friendly with everyone. But she’s in the relationship with YOU! Not any of those other guys. Dancing is just for fun. Maybe you should socialize with more girls too! Just get to know everyone around you on a lighter note, and it won’t seem so bad anymore!