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Well My girlfriend who I really love dearly and would

do and has done many sacrifices for wants her nose pierced and a tatoo which I have nothing against if your the kind of person who that works with but she the princess type and it Just doesnt seem like it works and Im not making her not get it Im only asking her not to and really rarley ever ask anything from her but this the one time I do but I wouldent dump her or anything but it Just seems selfish of her after Ive done so much for her without asking a thing in return until now but she thinks Im being controlling but im trying so hard to be I told her she could get it I just really wish she wouldent is all But I dont know mabey Im just a bad boyfriend because I honestly do feel bad for asking her but at the sametime shes asked so much from me…So I dont know If im a bad boyfreind Im sorry…Honestly do you think im a bad boyfreind?

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sirjeelliot edited this post 1 year, 6 months ago. Read the previous text »

Well My girlfriend who I really love dearly and would do and has done many sacrifices for wants her nose pierced and a tatoo which I have nothing against if your the kind of person who that works with but she the princess type and it Just doesnt seem like it works and Im not making her not get it Im only asking her not to and really rarley ever ask anything from her but this the one time I do but I wouldent dump her or anything but it Just seems selfish of her after Ive done so much for her without asking a thing in return until now but she thinks Im being controlling but im trying so hard to be I told her she could get it I just really wish she wouldent is all But I dont know mabey Im just a bad boyfriend because I honestly do feel bad for asking her but at the sametime shes asked so much from me…So I dont know If im a bad boyfreind Im sorry…

sirjeelliot edited this post 1 year, 6 months ago. Read the previous text »

Well My girlfriend who I really love dearly and would do and has done many sacrifices for wants her nose pierced and a tatoo which I have nothing against if your the kind of person who that works with but she the princess type and it Just doesnt seem like it works and Im not making her not get it Im only asking her not to and really rarley ever ask anything from her but this the one time I do but I wouldent dump her or anything but it Just seems selfish of her after Ive done so much for her without asking a thing in return until now but she thinks Im being controlling but im trying so hard to be I told her she could get it I just really wish she wouldent is all But I dont know mabey Im just a bad boyfriend because I honestly do feel bad for asking her but at the sametime shes asked so much from me…So I dont know If im a bad boyfreind Im sorry…Honestly do you think im a bad boyfreind?

Gerret offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (30 minutes after post)

No your not a bad boyfriend. Look - my Fiance loves tattoos and I hate them - she wants as many as possible. She knows how I feel and I know how she feels. If you have asked her nicely and she still does it- well then she is who she is. I wouldn’t say she isn’t right for you but maybe you need to look at the relationship a little bit more. Girls who tend to ask alot of you and not do anything in return … well its selfish, but a tattoo is a big thing and maybe she really really wants it. Just dont let it bother you to much. It does NOT make you a bad boyfriend. Atleast your being honest which is the most important thing.

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cattail offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Newark, NJ, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (10 hours, 52 minutes after post)

I don’t think you did anything wrong… you told her she’s free to make her own choice, but voiced your views on it. That’s not being controlling… that’s offering an opinion and advice to someone you care about. I suppose, though, if she really believes your (or other people? parents?) are trying to control this, it could become more an act of rebellion for her… saying “nobody is gonna control me!”

Perhaps she just doesn’t want to be seen as the “princess” type and is trying to change that image…

Well, you had your say and I guess that’s that. It’s probably best to just let it go now and see what final decision she comes to on her own.

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Ashlo offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

Agreed

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