marriage help: I’m trying to figure out my marriage.

Time Traveller

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I’m trying to figure out my marriage.

Any married ladies out there who have confusing husbands, or marriages?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 6 months ago (4 minutes after post)

What’s the problem?

Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (8 minutes after post)

I’m confused about his behavior. He does weird things, like for instance he used to yell at me in the car pretty much nonstop on the way to visit his family. I gave him an ultimatum on that and he doesn’t do it now. He also used to leave really heavy things around the house.

Help me with: How depressed are you on a scale of one to ten with ten being almost dead and one being haveing a smile on your face presently.

Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Like broken computers and old couches, that he got at various jobs.

Help me with: How depressed are you on a scale of one to ten with ten being almost dead and one being haveing a smile on your face presently.

Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Other stuff too.

Help me with: How depressed are you on a scale of one to ten with ten being almost dead and one being haveing a smile on your face presently.

Anonymous #
1 year, 6 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Is he planning to reuse the computers for parts, or use the couches, or does he just like to collect things? Sorry about the questions, but it helps to clarify your situation so that people here can understand.

Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (21 minutes after post)

I guess so. We still have the used computer but I don’t think he is really going to use it.

Help me with: How depressed are you on a scale of one to ten with ten being almost dead and one being haveing a smile on your face presently.

Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (24 minutes after post)

I’m just going through some of this because I’m kind of alienated from him, and would like a clearer view.

Help me with: How depressed are you on a scale of one to ten with ten being almost dead and one being haveing a smile on your face presently.

Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Really all the interaction was in the past.

Help me with: How depressed are you on a scale of one to ten with ten being almost dead and one being haveing a smile on your face presently.

Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Got to go.

Help me with: How depressed are you on a scale of one to ten with ten being almost dead and one being haveing a smile on your face presently.

firestorm613 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

looks like you are not communicating well with him. You need to talk to him and tell him what bothers you. be specific. Don’t hint, say it out loud, everything. and be sensitive, try to understand his side too. this way, you guys can try to figure out where the problem lies. if you communicate and then you understand the problem, you can start to talk about it and see if you can come up with a solution, you will both need to compromise. Thats how marriage works.
-Jake

blu 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (2 hours, 5 minutes after post)

I’m a guy, but it sounds like your husband is a similar guy to the way I was right before my fiance kicked me out.

Answer me one question: Is your husband a drunk?

cope325 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (7 hours, 47 minutes after post)

Read my posts and you will see that my marriage is hard and confusing..Maybe it will make light of your marriage

Help me with: Today is a better day…I am feeling better about my marriage.

Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (9 hours, 30 minutes after post)

He’s not a drunk I think he’s just a really insecure guy who is a little twisted. I love him but the honeymoon seems to be over.

Help me with: How depressed are you on a scale of one to ten with ten being almost dead and one being haveing a smile on your face presently.

Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (10 hours, 7 minutes after post)

But no honeymoon is good, we’re going to enjoy the no honeymoon.

Help me with: How depressed are you on a scale of one to ten with ten being almost dead and one being haveing a smile on your face presently.

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