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Debrad1207
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My friend is kinda shunning me.

I did something to her a while ago (some of you may remember my post, it had to do with self-injury), and she has been kinda ignoring me since then. She says that she isn’t mad, but she really avoids me a lot. I wanna do something to show I’m really sorry, and I wanna try to win her back… Anyone have any ideas for what I could do? I’m planning on writing her another letter, but idk cuz she never read my first one… Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. =)

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Cell offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Give her a gift.

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Help me with: I’m feeling like I can’t go on.
Debrad1207 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Tampa, FL, US | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

She might reject it…

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Help me with: I need some gift ideas =D.
Cell offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Unlikely. Give her something she would really like.

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rebeccalynn16 offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 23 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

send her flowers she will have to read your note then.

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[think peace] offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 29 minutes after post)

i think the flowers are a good idea, but really you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel so find out someway that she has to listen to you

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