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Has the word “friend” lost all meaning?

People seem to use the term so loosely today that it is hard to determine what anyone means by the term anymore…
Has the world become so transient that we can no longer even comprehend such a simple concept???

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rekaru offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 11 months ago (13 minutes after post)

I agree, I use the term very very sparingly. Instead, I tend to refer to others as a ’someone I know’, a ‘classmate’, or an ‘acquaintance’.

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kemmy offline Verified User (4 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 11 months ago (24 minutes after post)

A lot of things have lost their meaning. Like saying I love you. But I dont call anyone my friend. I use acquaintance for people I just know, not friend. Although, I know a lot of people who say that too, so I guess its just some people use such terms loosly but not everyone. Like everything else in life.

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☆lilies☆ offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 11 months ago (2 hours, 42 minutes after post)

Depends on how a person believes or adhere to its meaning. Like some people calling everyone a brother or i know of an ethnic group calling their friends ’sis’ short for sister.

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Max offline Verified User (4 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 11 months ago (9 hours, 43 minutes after post)

Ya you are right. Like the word love you. I think it has changed; friends for work and friends on the net…etc.

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3 years, 11 months ago (12 hours, 2 minutes after post)

A friend is some one you can talk with about any thing and they with you. A relationship where nothing of intrinstic value is exchanged.

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morgandawn1 offline Verified User (3 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 11 months ago (19 hours, 52 minutes after post)

I use it alot. But it seems people dont use it as much as they use too. some do but not many it seems. :O

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falconsftbl0 offline Verified User (3 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 11 months ago (23 hours, 24 minutes after post)

Yea, I think friend doesnt mean what it really does mean…..the word ‘friend’ afterall, does have the word ‘end’.

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dmpstart offline Verified User (3 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 11 months ago (1 day, 9 hours after post)

Maybe it is better that way. I mean if such important concepts such as ‘friend’ or ‘foe’ were less well defined then the power that ‘friends’ can have over people with power would be more difficult to detect, making it all to more difficult oppose, or enabling a ruler to wield power over a group of political ‘friends’ (allies) who oppose a corrupt regime for example.
Good question, and very relevant from this point of view.

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okei! offline Verified User (4 years) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 11 months ago (1 day, 15 hours after post)

maybe. i dunno if it goes with age or just the “modern” times, but i find it difficult to trust. it is something earned. synonymous with friendship. built through the good and bad times. a solid foundation needed.

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okei! offline Verified User (4 years) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 11 months ago (1 day, 15 hours after post)

but i guess for some, they use the term loosely without really meaning it.

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