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I have moved back to my parents and started a new job.

I have been there for almost three months now. I got friendly with a girl there and swapped phone numbers. She has a kid and says the father lives with her but they don’t sleep together and he never pays for anything. We started texting each other 2 weeks ago and fell for each other. She says she wants him out of her house. We went on a staff do last Saturday. We got drunk and kissed. The following Sunday she had a nap to recover from her hangover. He found the text on the phone and went beserk! He phone me and threaten to beat me up! he knows i work in the same place and said he was gonna come in but he has’nt. I feel terrible! i fell for this girl and i know i should’nt of. We dont text anymore just incase he finds them. she works at the Weekends as so do i. I still feel for her and its gonna be tough. I dont trust her cause i dont really know her. How should i react with her?

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Tragically_Misled91 offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (1 day after post)

Find out which one of you she loves, the jerk who wont support or love her, or you. If she chooses you, then tell her to get rid of him. She cant have you both she has to choose. If she wont, then leave her she will only cause you unwanted trouble.

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greeneydjim offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

Thanks for the advice Misled91. She is gonna go through the courts. The house is in both of there names which is why it is a bit tricky. she has deleted my number but memorised it. She is also gonna shop him to the CSA. She is scared of him. He does’nt hit her he uses mental abuse. Im stepping back. If the feelings are still there when he is gone then I will make the next move but until then we will remain friends..

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Tragically_Misled91 offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (3 days, 20 hours after post)

That is a really good idea, I hope everything turns out ok for her and you!

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greeneydjim offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (4 weeks after post)

Well its still as it was. Shes was txting me lately that she loves me. She went away to ireland with her dad this week but has come back here different. Im getting fed up of it all. I think i need to move on. Its like torter now. I dont think i can be her friend either. It hurts me too much. She shouldnt of said she loved me. I have to work with her at weekends and thats gonna be bad but i’ll have to deal with it

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