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bloodlover girl
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Three Lakes, QC, CA

i cut myself when im really sad or mad but somtimes

i cut too much and my bf gets really mad but i am so fragile i get sad or mad really quick and im rarely happy what should i do?!

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BchFc offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Austin, TX, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (0 minutes after post)

you are WAY too dramatic

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bloodlover girl offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
Three Lakes, QC, CA | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

what do mean dramatic im only saying the truth

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jcd offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

What you should do is stop cutting yourself. Find a better way to deal with your emotions before you accidentally cut too deep and bleed to death.

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BchFc offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Austin, TX, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

bloodlover girl wrote:
what do mean dramatic im only saying the truth

all of your posts, all sad, cry, poor me….

dont you see the pattern? You live in depression because you feed on depression.
Try shutting the computer off and getting some sunshine.
The sun gives off natural happy rays. Vitamin D, homie.

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Smarty offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 27 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Find a hobby to distract you from cutting yourself…. Maybe join a gym? That takes up time. You just need to calm yourself down, and learn that cutting yourself isn’t the answer. The consequences of you harming yourself aren’t worth it (boyfriend leaving you cos you havent stopped, you dying/ feeling depressed, scars and all that jazz).

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bloodlover girl offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
Three Lakes, QC, CA | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

i dont really have a computer i use the ones at school and this is my last day of school till next year when i go 2 high school

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BchFc offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Austin, TX, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

bloodlover girl wrote:
i dont really have a computer i use the ones at school and this is my last day of school till next year when i go 2 high school

if you’re in middle school with this much angst you should seek counceling.
You’ll drown in high school.

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bloodlover girl offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
Three Lakes, QC, CA | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

im drowing now

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2 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

I used to do the same thing. Unfortunately I had to make some drastic changes in my life which included changing the group of people I surrounded myself with, even some family members. It was almost like some of the people around me made me depressed and cutting was almost like a release…just keep in mind though, if you feel maybe you are going to far that if you do attempt to take your life, it is a permanent solution to a temporary problem…you may not want to hear it, but you need to make the changes in your life to make yourself happy. Don’t let the depression and sadness rule you. I cut myself for about 4 year straight and now I am left with scars that will forever remind me of it. I do still have moments when i am stressed and have the urge to cut, but I just have to be strong for myself and remember that life is a gift and you should treat it as such. I hope this helps, sorry it’s so long! Take Care.

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jcd offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Go talk to your school counselor today before school is out. They can probably recommend someone you can talk to over the summer.

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BchFc offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Austin, TX, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

bloodlover girl wrote:
im drowing now

Get.
Help.

your issues aren’t that bad. they cant be.
you’re typing on an fing computer.

you’re not dying.
you’re not dead.
you’re not sick, homless,alone.

come on, girl. Pull yourself up and make a change.
that is if you really want to.

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evansent200 offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 88 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

please dont do this to yourself dont treat your body like that!
friend of mine is in a wheelchair due to all the damage she done to her arms & legs!shes permanently disgured!!!
for what?for not seeking help asap
is that what you want?dont think so-go get help please.

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Guardian Angel. offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 94 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

your boyfriend really cares ibout you and he/I want you to discuss your problems with him/me. plese talk to me and we can work things out. Saturday will be our 2-month Aniversery. watever prolem you have talk to me and we can work it out i promise.

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kim, again. offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 37 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

I agree with BtchFce. :)

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Guardian Angel. offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 94 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 29 minutes after post)

its me your boyfriend. (J.J.
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S.S.)

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