Love help: what should i do with my girlfriend but i really really love her? - Help.com

First, turn off the music. Better yet, listen to upbeat songs that have no emotional connection with her. Second, how old are you?

Quit trying to chat with her for awhile and see if she comes around…. in the meantime, I think I would write it in an email to her about the situation, and ask her to just be straight with you… why is she suddenly unavailable to you? Tell her that in all fairness you DESERVE to know what’s going on. (and you do!) Tell her you will quit trying to chat since it seems she no longer wants to, but to just let you know what has happened.

A little distance from you might wake her up and make her start worrying about what you are doing… ;) Don’t let her take you for granted that you are just there no matter what!!

My friend how old are you? I’m 32 and u have only been going out with her for 3 months, LOL. I’m not saying that you can’t fall in love with a girl in 3 months but what I’m trying to point out is that in 3 months you have to expect the unexpected. Does that make sense?? You don’t really know someone or should EXPECT too much from a relationship when it hasn’t existed that long. Do you know what I mean? MY friend you have to prepare yourself in life for things like this. There are people out there married for 10 yrs or more then get divorced! Those are the people that I really feel sorry for. Does this make sense now?

Let me tell you about me I’ve been with my girlfriend for 4 yrs and I don’t know how to tell her that I don’t want to be with her anymore. I go out with my friends and see other girls that I’m attracted to and see qualities that they have that she doesn’t. Anyway It’s a decision that you have to make but it’s good that you are asking around for advice. I would do the same. I hope that this message finds you well and that all has been resolved. I see that this was posted 3 months ago and maybe I’m too late with whatever knowledge I was able to provide you with.

Take care. Hope all is well.

i attracted with my girlfriend by her good aproach and also by her good thinking about
critical issu.and iknow her for 7 years because her brothers are my friends. always i go to their home.then i fall in love with her and i asked her that she to be my girlfriend.she said no.after a long period of time she said ok.then after we engejed, problem come thet is always she expect love from me and she said already first you come in love you shoud engeje me in love.then i said her thet as long as you engejed in love,love shoud be in both way.due to this whenever we meet,we always quarel and then we divorced.what should i do?