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Ok for starters im 15, i’m in high school, and i can’t stop thinking of this girl.

So any way, in march out school JROTC had our military ball, i took this girl i didn’t really know because my date + backup date cancelled. Any way my friend had set me and her up to go. The night was great, we got to talk during dinner, take pictures, and the dance was so much fun, i basically danced with her and maybe 3 other people. All in All we hit it off. Then next day my friend who set us up told me that she liked me. I called her a few times after that and then my friend told me to stop trying. So stupid me did. Now i had stopped thinking about her and decided to focus on another girl i liked. But low and behold about a month or two ago my friend tells me that she like me again and she would go out with me if she breaks up with her boyfriend.

So we started talking again i got my hopes up, but **** it she hasnt broken up with him, I REALLY like this girl she has about been the nicest girl i’ve know for a long time, she’s beautiful, and she likes me back.

The problems i see with liking her are…..
First off, she has a boyfriend, people have suggested “steal her” but im not that kind of person
Two, She’s gonna be moving probally before the end of summer, which means i probally wont be able to go out with her at all or very long.
Three, Even if i could, im broke

Then there’s a Good/bad note, he’s 19 and she’s 16 so he’s going to college probally next year(i dont know him he may be retarded and a 5th year senior)
What can i do?

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Dots offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Look, my friend went through the same thing. And I told him the same thing I’m about to tell you.
Think about this:
She’s going behind her boyfriend’s back for you.
Which means that she could do it to you as well.
She’s not worth it.

Find someone who actually cares about you, and wants ONLY you in her life.

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Dreamgirl offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (2 hours, 24 minutes after post)

Hmmmmm. If she is not going to stay why spending few months and hurt a lot longer when she takes off? Focus on the other girl you liked …. let her focus on her own boyfriend.

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katiekins offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (14 hours, 23 minutes after post)

just try to find someone else for now.
at least until she breaks up with him.

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Dom J McGovern offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 day, 8 hours after post)

Ahh man that’s a sticky situation huh..

But yeah, DOTS has the right answer, she’s probably gonna cheat on all her fellas so your best off droppin it, I go through similar problems all the time (im 15 too)

anyway, relationships suck!!! stay single my friend! :)

xxxx

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