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How can i get over him, please help me.

I went out with this guy for 3 weeks, yeah, not alot at all.
But during those weeks we really connected, and ive never met anyone like him before.
When he broke up with me, i brushed it off and we agreed we’d be friends.
He obviously lied.
He avoids me in hallways,and ignores me.
I didnt even find him much attractive in the first place, but we had a strong mental connection.
And now i cant stop thinking about him.
I even wonder, maybe he feels the same way, cause he liked me alot.
Its hard to get to be best friends and close with someone so quickly, and then not ever speak again.
I cant even get the courage to look at his myspace page.
When ever i see him, I get choked up and anxious.
I need to get over him, I cant keep being depressed because we not together.
I need to move on!
but how?

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Winston Salem, NC, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Send him a Message, Note, What have you, and Set a time to have an actual talk with him.

MAke it a productive talk, Asking questions to each other.

Aburpt endings to relationships, no matter the length cause for mixed feelings and just out right confusion. Having Closure and knowing why you two went seperate ways, helps in coping and moving on.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (13 hours, 44 minutes after post)

That is rough. I agree when you say it is hard to get over someone that has such a connection to you. But you have to pull through, you can do it- others have and who says you can’t. It may be rough at the start of it but soon you’ll move on.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 months after post)

Babe, talk to him. listen to what he says.

Guys are more shy than girls. So you try talking.

:)

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