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battlewolf

Hello everyone.

I have an issue when it comes to my girlfriend. We’ve been together now for two years but she has recently been having some major issues in school, she doesn’t have a lot of friends, but she thinks the ones she does have hate her. I’ve tried my best to cheer her up or to help solve things with her between her friends but she only ends up feeling worse. And in the end she takes it out on me and if my help doesn’t work, she just gets really angry and acts like i don’t matter at all. so i don’t know what i should do i could use any advice i can get

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Truckerspive 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (13 minutes after post)

i used to have a problem like this, in fact it is scary how similar of a problem that i had… whenever i helped she just lashed out at me… because i loved her i would NEVER lash back but its almost like she was using me for that because she would do it over and over and i still never lashed out back and i would just continue to help as much as i could… i guess i couldn’t see how she was hurting me because i loved her so much but it took so much hurt and so much pain until i couldn’t take it anymore so i finally broke up with her and she was so oblivious… but my advice still remains that you either end it with her or give one last MAJOR outburst of pouring compliments and just be there for her… if she rejects u or hurts u again then please for ur own sake… end it

battlewolf 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (18 minutes after post)

well, she does have times that she really does appreciate things i do, but they are few and far between. it was real bad today when she really let me have it because of things at school. i know the things she said weren’t the truth, and when i lash back she gets surprised and acts like its wrong that i got mad

Help me with: Hello, I live in Aurora IL, and my mother has intestinal cancer.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (21 minutes after post)

yup ur girl and my ex could be best friends… when i broke up with her it completely shocked her! but i just hope that what i said helped a lil bit

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (37 minutes after post)

yeah it did thank you, i’ll probably see how things go after i tell her how things are and how she’s been hurting me, if she realizes it then it’ll go on, but if not then yeah it’ll end

Help me with: Hello, I live in Aurora IL, and my mother has intestinal cancer.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (40 minutes after post)

thats a very good idea.. i really hope things work out for the best!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour after post)

your gf has her own personal issues/ has her own demons to fight, and she won’t allow you to help her. one last try though, if it does not work, leave her. for your own sake and peace.

Help me with: w/c is harder, to learn to love someone u don’t love or to wait 4 d one u love, hoping someday he’ll love u back?

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battlewolf 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

yeah i was thinking about doing it over a period of time, but problem is her parents don’t know she’s been with me at all, so that might hurt more than help if i tried to contact them

Help me with: Hello, I live in Aurora IL, and my mother has intestinal cancer.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

nah no age gap, but they hate white people, if things go bad though as i talk to her, i’ll need to talk to them no matter what

Help me with: Hello, I live in Aurora IL, and my mother has intestinal cancer.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 53 minutes after post)

nope she doesn’t spend anything like that, her main issues are school and her friends, or lack there of. and yeah i see what you mean about the parents, if anything i should talk to them first

Help me with: Hello, I live in Aurora IL, and my mother has intestinal cancer.

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