Love help: My girlfriend is graduating ahead of me by a year, I’m not sure if I’ll ever see her again cuz she’s going to school in Ohio. - Help.com

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My girlfriend is graduating ahead of me by a year, I’m not sure if I’ll ever see her again cuz she’s going to school in Ohio.

Im in love wither and I’m gona miss her alot. How am I gona get over this?

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soxfan0 offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

talk to her about it. let her know how you feel!

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

I have, shes down about it too.

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soxfan0 offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

are either of you interested in a long distance relationship?

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

I guess wel have to but idk thatll be too hard

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

I’m in one right now because of college. I met my boyfriend in college in NY. He lives in NJ and I live in FL. It sucks, but if your love is strong enough, you’ll get through. Just make sure to talk often, and constantly remind each other how much you love each other, and miss each other.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

talk to her and if she reaally loves you, she must tell you the best from her heart
that she will surely come back to you even if she leaves you now to aoahio.

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Dots offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

Also, don’t forget she will most likely be back for Thanksgiving, Winter, and Spring break. So its not like you’re going the entire the year without her.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

Oh ya I never thought of that dots (:

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

well what it’s going to do is test your relationship. you might actually get to know her better since you will only be able to talk to her. but do what ever makes you happy dont be afraid to end your relationship if you aren’t going to be happy in it with her living so far away. and yeah like dots said she will be back for vacations!!! do what makes you happy!

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

It happens. If it was meant to be then things will work as a long distance relationship. Either way both your futures are extremely important, you cannot expect a person to not go to college somewhere that they want to go because of a relationship. I hope things work out well :)

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

Glad I helped out a little :-D

Also, some fun ideas would be to send letters or postcards to each other. That way you have something physical from her that will remind you of her love.
AND, before she leaves, y’all should go to Build-A-Bear, and make each a stuffed animal that y’all can hug whenever you wish to hug each other. And maybe put one of those voice things in it, so when you squeeze it, it says something. The one my boyfriend made me says something that he always made fun of me for saying. It’s totally cute, and I sleep with it every night. He sleeps with a “Doodle-Pony” I got him because he said he always wanted a pony. I also wrote a cute letter on the pony, so he knows I will always love him, even if I am 1500 miles away.

Those are just some ideas to help keep the relationship alive.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

Nice work on helping out Dots :)

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

Oh shel def like that dots. Thanks (;

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Dots offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (24 minutes after post)

Thanks *hey…iknow you* and No problem *youngblood*

And if you ever feel down on it, just give me a shout, because I definitely know what you’re going through with this situation.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

Will do dots. Ttyl guys!

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