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Michael Leibman 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 minute after post)

Go for it dude! Just ask her out. It sounds like she likes you.

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Michael Leibman 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 minute after post)

oh, sorry… I go into helpbot mode sometimes.

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Arnday the Imbroglio 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (3 minutes after post)

haha, thats partially it, you give up answering, its like a broken record with all these problems. Yes it sounds like she likes you, just try get to know her, play it cool, no dude he’s your best mate, no it doesnt sound like she know what she wants. Seriously a monkey could give the same answers

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irishtweety 3 #
Mountjoy, 07, IE | 1 year, 6 months ago (10 minutes after post)

So YOU are the monkey who responds???? Cool - good to meet you!!!

Commander Ikari 91 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (11 minutes after post)

maybe if they start to make a post about love, we redirect them to a site replaying a video of a man smashing his head against a wall.

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Confused as H-E-L-L 1 #
Elk Grove, CA, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (11 minutes after post)

lol usually I would agree to this sort of thing but sometimes people come here in search of advice and answers because truely love(hormones mostly) get in the way of logical thinking. And even though there are tons of great people out there that do there honest to god great answers and advice the posters STILL don’t listen because to them they truely belive that their fantisies are going to work out.

But there are times(like for me) when posters do take the advice and use it. Sometimes it works other times you have to take it and put your own spin on it to make it feel right to you.

So I guess in sum I’m just saying that teens and love are like water and oil. You know?

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mumstheword 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (14 minutes after post)

I guess what’s important to some kids isn’t important to others…simple as that.

Arnday the Imbroglio 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (17 minutes after post)

importance aint always a part of it though. Hell playing my master system was important to me, doesnt mean my dad wasnt right to tell me not to be a stupid bastard and go do something important instead.

Im not sure its hormones either, we’re giving people answers they would have chosen alone. Im not sure what it is, its like searching for clarification or maybe like most of us its just a desire to talk about themselves.

I personally love ikari’s idea

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Confused as H-E-L-L 1 #
Elk Grove, CA, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (21 minutes after post)

Commander Ikari wrote:
maybe if they start to make a post about love, we redirect them to a site replaying a video of a man smashing his head against a wall.

Haha hey me too…now I’ll just remember not to post things on here about love haha oh wait I have ahhh please don’t send me to the site *begs*

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mumstheword 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (22 minutes after post)

well, if relative importance is relative to being told to do something more important… haven’t you got something more important to do ? Relatively speaking?

kim. 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (24 minutes after post)

haha.
i agree.
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Arnday the Imbroglio 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (25 minutes after post)

perhaps, I really should be sleeping, but the massive caffiene in my body forbids me, however if’n you wanted to make a post complaining about me complainin about my sleeplessness I shouldn’t complain as I have it coming

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katiekins 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (52 minutes after post)

i agree.
i have posted a question about this before.
but all i got was ****.

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Dragon_Lady 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (2 hours, 17 minutes after post)

lol Been there, done that. :)

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Sanni 1 #
Birmingham, A7, GB | 1 year, 6 months ago (20 hours, 16 minutes after post)

And I thought that it was just me!!!

FISHERGIRL_1 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (6 months, 2 weeks after post)

LOL!!!! Thank you!! that’s all i have to say :)

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Jenski 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (6 months, 4 weeks after post)

I’m 24 and I’ve still not got this Love business figured out! It is funny some of the teen posts you get. But other I feel sorry for. Also I was fifteeen when I met the guy I’d get married and have kids with then he’d cheat on me so if we give good advice now maybe they wont make the same mistakes. I did love him to in a teenage way whahever that is!

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Anonymous #
11 months, 1 week ago (7 months after post)

Arnday the Imbroglio wrote:
perhaps, I really should be sleeping, but the massive caffiene in my body forbids me, however if’n you wanted to make a post complaining about me complainin about my sleeplessness I shouldn’t complain as I have it coming

brain…exploded……

btw i agree with the whole redundant stupid questions
i think some of them want attention given to their sadly generic and unimportant problems because they want to feel like they really are the center of the entire universe, no matter how much logic tells their challenged and hormane-filled brains otherwise

Mebitme 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (7 months, 2 weeks after post)

LOL! What you forget though is that this whole lovey stuff is totally new to them/us. :P Dont know if I am out of that category yet. I agree that the whole “Omg he looked at me, does he like me?” is annoying. But when your attending school everyday in the same little city, something new means the world to them. ^-^ Not much to do otherwise :D

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Michael Leibman 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (7 months, 2 weeks after post)

This post was just so funny…

This girl wanted to share my chocolate mini roll, do you think she likes me? I once made eye contact with this lad I SOOOOO love, do you think he’s going to ask me out?

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Arnday the Imbroglio 6 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (7 months, 2 weeks after post)

wow this is some severe post resurrection, I guess I should be flattered. Also im sure that the kids asking questions are getting younger, im sure I saw one that was from a 12 year old…

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Commander Ikari 91 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (7 months, 2 weeks after post)

i’ve seen a 10 year old on this site a few times…

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Michael Leibman 3 #
Littleton, CO, US | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (7 months, 2 weeks after post)

I felt like a 5 year old a few times…….

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Arnday the Imbroglio edited this post 3 months, 4 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

Ok you were right

Any previous posters who’ve whined about teenagers and love problems, you were right, even if at the time ive said we should give them another chance, its getting on my nerves, its too much. This girl wanted to share my chocolate mini roll, do you think she likes me? I once made eye contact with this lad I SOOOOO love, do you think he’s going to ask me out? My best mates former ex is going out with another mutual friend but me and her are totally in love. Its too much, god **** it, its all just a twisted pubescant form of lust and you need to all just give up, none of your relationships will last more than 5 years, the average will last a matter of months before someone more interesting, more charming and better dressed steals them away from you and youll be back here. Dammit people, before long we’re all gonna have to have a help.com member sat next to us on dates to give us advice because we’re too useless to answer questions for ourselves.

Ok, seriously glad I got that out.
sorry

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