This may seem stupid to you, but it’s a big deal for me.
I’m only 13 years old…and my boyfriend, that I love with all my heart, is going away to camp for a whole week. I usually talk to him every single day. But now I won’t get to talk to him for a whole week. I’m really sad…Hearing his voice everyday is something I look forward to…Now, I have nothing to look forward to. I can’t wait that long. I miss him dreadfully, and it’s only been one day!…can someone please give me some tips to live through this week?…I could really use them…please and thank you.
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hold on to your memories…and imagine how special its going to be when he comes back!
think of how much fun hes going to have and when he comes back he will tell you so you and him can share the happiness he had while on camp and a week away will just make the relationship stronger… he will spend the whole week thinking about you and when he sees you he will be like omg i missed you so much and just tell you how he dont like being away from you…. think of the time away as a good thing like a test of nature…
Have a long conversation beforehand and record it.
They are at camp..they have no elecrtonics…no computers, phones, videogames..nothing!…
No phones!!!…can you believe it?!
They don’t take mail over there…it’s only for a week…so it wouldn’t get there on time
Look at his photos.
Record voicemails for him.
omg..I really love all yallz ideaz…I’m sure that these will all help!…omg..yallz have no idea how much yallz just helped me! I love yall!…
Thank you from the bottom of my pretty little heart!
I remember I had a piece of clothing from my girlfriend when she went away for a week, I felt the exact same way when we were going out, we were inseparable at the time. the clothing, and the smell of her on it really helped
write him a few letters and give them to him when he gets back, at least you’ll be able to get your feelings out during the week.
Oh god, I know this is all lovely and disney like, but I think she needs to do other things rather than to revolve her life and time around him.
Question
Can someone please give me some tips to live through this week?
Answer
Stop revolving your life around him and do other things.
Result
Will it help? I think so.
play with barbie (that’s what I did when I was your age lol)
When I was around 4 or 5 years old, a girl from this villege taught me how to make dolls from cloth, sticks, and cotton(optional).
Just a random memory I had a flashback of just now.
Come to think of it, they ended up looking similar to voodoo dolls.
I use to play with beads, make bracelets, key chains
watch pokemon eww lol
play pokemon red on gameboy color, all reached level 100
watch tv
sunxfyre wrote:
When I was around 4 or 5 years old, a girl from this villege taught me how to make dolls from cloth, sticks, and cotton(optional).Just a random memory I had a flashback of just now.
I just remembered my mcdonalds barbie drive thru lol it was so cool, and the house that turned into a bag wow
i feel old now
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)
Thanks for all your help..and by the way..My life doesn’t revolve around him…He is just something I look forward to everyday.=)
I know exactly what you mean, I hope it works out between you to, the first love rarely does, but there is always a chance, and it all depends upon how much you both care for one another, and what you are willing to do together.
you have nothing to look forward to? You think he is ‘Everything’ and put here to make you happy. use this time to see the other things and people in your life and appreciate them.
spend some time with your girlfriends lap up all the extra time you have now which you can make your friends happy by being with them and also keeping yourself pre-occupied anyway the week will be fine just think youve only got 6 days left to spend as much time as posible pampering yourself and having fun with your friends!!
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (14 hours, 5 minutes after post)
I spend plenty of time with my friends!…my life doesn’t revolve around him…I look forward to alot of things everyday, he is one of them…He is the greatest and I am going to miss him. I want to thank all the people who get whats it’s like to have a first love that is going away for a while. Thank you for all your advice and thank you for getting it. =)
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