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This may seem stupid to you, but it’s a big deal for me.

I’m only 13 years old…and my boyfriend, that I love with all my heart, is going away to camp for a whole week. I usually talk to him every single day. But now I won’t get to talk to him for a whole week. I’m really sad…Hearing his voice everyday is something I look forward to…Now, I have nothing to look forward to. I can’t wait that long. I miss him dreadfully, and it’s only been one day!…can someone please give me some tips to live through this week?…I could really use them…please and thank you.

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chatzkelpoppins offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (0 minutes after post)

hold on to your memories…and imagine how special its going to be when he comes back!

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oxoxo missfoxy oxoxo offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (6 minutes after post)

think of how much fun hes going to have and when he comes back he will tell you so you and him can share the happiness he had while on camp and a week away will just make the relationship stronger… he will spend the whole week thinking about you and when he sees you he will be like omg i missed you so much and just tell you how he dont like being away from you…. think of the time away as a good thing like a test of nature…

sarahrichards offline Verified User (6 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (6 minutes after post)

email him… im shure they have that

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jimtc offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Have a long conversation beforehand and record it.

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your_favorite_sweeth offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (7 minutes after post)

They are at camp..they have no elecrtonics…no computers, phones, videogames..nothing!…

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sarahrichards offline Verified User (6 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (7 minutes after post)

no phones!!

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sarahrichards offline Verified User (6 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (7 minutes after post)

what about post

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your_favorite_sweeth offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (8 minutes after post)

No phones!!!…can you believe it?!

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your_favorite_sweeth offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (8 minutes after post)

They don’t take mail over there…it’s only for a week…so it wouldn’t get there on time

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jimtc offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Look at his photos.
Record voicemails for him.

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your_favorite_sweeth offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (10 minutes after post)

omg..I really love all yallz ideaz…I’m sure that these will all help!…omg..yallz have no idea how much yallz just helped me! I love yall!…
Thank you from the bottom of my pretty little heart!

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absolutelyamy offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (12 minutes after post)

absence makes the heart grow fonder:)

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micmacster offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (20 minutes after post)

I remember I had a piece of clothing from my girlfriend when she went away for a week, I felt the exact same way when we were going out, we were inseparable at the time. the clothing, and the smell of her on it really helped

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snowflake048 offline Verified User (5 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (24 minutes after post)

write him a few letters and give them to him when he gets back, at least you’ll be able to get your feelings out during the week.

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Dance w/me Cristiano offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (31 minutes after post)

you’re young

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It Is Me offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Oh god, I know this is all lovely and disney like, but I think she needs to do other things rather than to revolve her life and time around him.

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snowflake048 offline Verified User (5 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (40 minutes after post)

Well, that’s a good point, but that’s not what she was asking

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It Is Me offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (42 minutes after post)

Question
Can someone please give me some tips to live through this week?

Answer
Stop revolving your life around him and do other things.

Result
Will it help? I think so.

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Dance w/me Cristiano offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (43 minutes after post)

play with barbie (that’s what I did when I was your age lol)

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It Is Me offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (45 minutes after post)

When I was around 4 or 5 years old, a girl from this villege taught me how to make dolls from cloth, sticks, and cotton(optional).

Just a random memory I had a flashback of just now.

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It Is Me offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (46 minutes after post)

Come to think of it, they ended up looking similar to voodoo dolls.

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micmacster offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (46 minutes after post)

lol, did they work like them?

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It Is Me offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (47 minutes after post)

I should try to make one again and find out =P

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Dance w/me Cristiano offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (50 minutes after post)

I use to play with beads, make bracelets, key chains

watch pokemon eww lol

play pokemon red on gameboy color, all reached level 100

watch tv

sunxfyre wrote:
When I was around 4 or 5 years old, a girl from this villege taught me how to make dolls from cloth, sticks, and cotton(optional).Just a random memory I had a flashback of just now.

I just remembered my mcdonalds barbie drive thru lol it was so cool, and the house that turned into a bag wow

i feel old now

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your_favorite_sweeth offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

Thanks for all your help..and by the way..My life doesn’t revolve around him…He is just something I look forward to everyday.=)

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micmacster offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (8 hours, 24 minutes after post)

I know exactly what you mean, I hope it works out between you to, the first love rarely does, but there is always a chance, and it all depends upon how much you both care for one another, and what you are willing to do together.

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Felicity offline Verified User (5 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (10 hours, 55 minutes after post)

you have nothing to look forward to? You think he is ‘Everything’ and put here to make you happy. use this time to see the other things and people in your life and appreciate them.

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Rhiannon offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (11 hours, 39 minutes after post)

spend some time with your girlfriends lap up all the extra time you have now which you can make your friends happy by being with them and also keeping yourself pre-occupied anyway the week will be fine just think youve only got 6 days left to spend as much time as posible pampering yourself and having fun with your friends!!

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your_favorite_sweeth offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (14 hours, 5 minutes after post)

I spend plenty of time with my friends!…my life doesn’t revolve around him…I look forward to alot of things everyday, he is one of them…He is the greatest and I am going to miss him. I want to thank all the people who get whats it’s like to have a first love that is going away for a while. Thank you for all your advice and thank you for getting it. =)

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