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If you honestly trusted her, then there’s no reason to be getting jealous. Maybe you’re just a little possessive, in which case, ease up a little. If she’d never cheat on you, then you have no reason to be worried.

maybe youre jsut not ready. deep emotions can cause allergic reactions in the brain i know this from first-hand experience.

No point talking to her about it, I know this for a fact, I mean what are you going to say to her? That you feel insecure whenever she talks to a guy or two and has the word cute or adorable in it? You’ll only end up pushing her away from you.

My advise is have a better social life, meet new people and improve yourself in everyway possible. You need to do this so you can realize even though she’s your girl, she isn’t the only girl. You won’t find yourself obsessing over this issue anymore.

I think you just need to realise how girls talk to people , most girls talk to people like this ( try to imagine she was talking to a girl who just said something nice ) you wouldnt feel jealous then would you ?

She probably dosent realise how this looks to you .

I suggest you pay her more compliments and see what happens !

Good Luck x

thanks sunxfyre.

jelly bean- i do compliment her alot! i dont over do it tho

heres the other post i made. here is some of the things that makes me get jealous/ a little possesive you could say- we go to different schools, so i dont alot of her friends. we’ve been goin out for almost 6 months and i still get jealous. i know that she would never do anything with another guy and that she really loves me. i know that they are just friends and i realize that, but for some reason, i cant help but getting jealous of them. part of it may be me not being able to trust her. here are 2 reasons why i might be this way. back in july, we went out for a month and we had to break up because her dad made her. she said she still loved me and everything, but while we were apart for 3 months, she hookd up with this other kid. she said it was just that one time, but idk if i can believe her. she told me that this happend 2 months after we started goin back out again. we went back out in december. and the other thing is the first time i met her/hung out with her we played strip soccer. there was 8 of us, 4 guys against 4 girls. we won, and they had to strip down. the thing about that that bothers me is that she had a bf at the time, so i always question if she would do that again or something like that, without me knowing. i guess you could say that im scared to lose her, so i get over protective so that doesnt happen. we went to a carnival last night and she saw a friend of hers who was a guy. she said shed be right back, n she ran up to him n gave him a hug n he lifted her in the air a little when they huggd. i got jealous, but i didnt let anyone know. i try to hide my jealousy so that it doesnt interfere with our relationship. so, what im tryin to ask is, what can i do to stop being jealous???

the past couple days have been really good. i am the same way you are. i get jealous n ****, but i know she would never do that stuff to me. i wont see her for 11 days cuz im goin to florida later tonight. n last night i was with her. n she almost cried because she was/is gunna miss me so much. n just that little stuff makes me not worry. i know that she loves me. she says i make her so happy and that i am the best boyfriend in the world.

we’ve had trust issues in the past, but its been really good now. thanks suzieto.