friends help: is I dont know how to just go up and talk to a random girl and get to know her. - Help.com

It’s so easy dude.Just ask question and seem like your interested.The first intial hi is the hardest.Its like anything you do you have to practice at it and you will get better,but if you don’t do it at all and keep running from what your afraid of then you will always be stuck in the same place.Have confidence in yourself.Its not something can’t can ever be perfect and your always learning.And don’t talk about yourself talk about her and let her steer the conversation.Women are far better conversationalists than men.

say
“i like your shirt”

i use this one all the time. it’s amazing. i promise you.

I know I use to always be shy too, just walk up and start off with a conversation starter. Ask her you would like her opinion to settle a bet, or ask her what the math homework was. Start small and just edge the conversation on a bit. Is there a certain girl you have in mind?

there are websites you can look for that help.There is almost a whole science behind asking questions.It really gets easier after awhile.I like your shirt is great,also most women know whats going to happen anyway.Oh he gave me a compliment now he is going to ask me out eventually.Dude I have messed up so many times it is ridicules.I still gat a little fear in me whenever I want to talk to some.If you don’t have any expectations it makes it much easier,but when you get your hopes it gets really hard.Learning to ask questions isn’t that difficult.You ask people questions all the time,trust me talking to a girl is not the most difficult thing,getting her to shut up is..hehehe

pssst, here’s a secret….NO guy knows what to say. LOTS of guys say what they think they should say. That gets you a certain kind of girl. If you want that kind of girl, then find some schmoozy dude and try to follow suit.

If you are the sort who says “I want to read a book, but the cover must look like this”, then best of luck to you on figuring that out.

However, if you are the sort who says “I want to read a book, and I like the following style and pathos and plot points to be in it”, then just be you and “read some books”, so to speak, and find your To Kill a Mockingbird.

I found mine when I wasn’t even looking.