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I love her, but she gets so angry.
I’m so scared of losing my ex-girlfriend again. I love her and she is starting to care about me again as well. We’re so close from getting back together, but whenever her life gets hard, she reacts with her old anger towards me. I know now she’s the only person I’ll ever love. Don’t ask me how, it’s just based on long experiences. And I’m pretty sure she never got over me enough to make any of her relationships work either. I just know that if we can get together long enough to rebuild our closeness, things will be all right. And she really does react with building emotion towards me.
But her life is complicated, and every time she has a setback, it drags her away from me again. The old anger keeps resurfacing again and again, and she blames me for stuff she knows is nonsense. When it passes, she will always apologize, but she has to start all over again getting comfortable with me. Because of this, I’m far ahead of her in terms of emotional attachment. Each time her anger pulls her back, it hurts a little more, since my feelings for her are continuously building. Neither of us are bad people and we do deserve each other and the love we know hides inside us. But something broke when our relationship did. I just don’t know what to do. I can’t live without her, but life won’t let me live it with her either…
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