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I may seem like a hypercrit here but i think my boyfriend is cheating on me…

I know i shouldnt be bothered because ive been ranting about how im crazy about someone else, but my boyfriend and I have been friends for about 7 years and I would never cheat on him even though I have feelings for someone else, I would be honest with him if it came to it… but ive just seen a few messages on his webpage and replies from him to girls and it really hurt… what do i do?

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Kimmi 22 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

Talk to him. Communication is key especially if you have been friends for 7 years. This shouldn’t be too difficult. Let him know that you saw it and that it hurt. I think now would be a great time to let him know that you have feelings for someone else. See what happens…He may just understand.

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crazyinlove! offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

He;s done this before though… we went to the prom 2gether in school and then cheated with someone I hate, so we broke up but stayed friends an now he’s doing it again an he’d told me he has changed.

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Cela88 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Silver Spring, MD, US | 4 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

I think you have to decide if you want to carry on as a couple or just try to be friends and go your separate ways romance-wise, even if it’s just for a little while. I mean if he’s flirting (I assume that those messages involved flirting if not something more) with other girls and you have feelings for someone else, then it might be time to take a break.

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crazyinlove! offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (30 minutes after post)

well one of the messages he sent actually said “hey ur well fit, wouldnt mind ****ing u if your up for it babe?” and the reply was “yeah ill send ya my number through msn now babe”…. what kinda girl falls for that line anyway?

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Cela88 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Silver Spring, MD, US | 4 months, 1 week ago (43 minutes after post)

Yeah, I really think that you might want to consider separating. And I agree, what a horrible line.

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Help me with: I posted about this a while back but more things have happened, so here’s a kind of a repost, an update, and me asking for more help (again):
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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

right…. done, ive just texted him and told him its not working out and i dont think i can trust him. thanks 4 your help though.

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