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Bullies

every day at school i get bullied

i get called mean names, stuff thrown at me and people sometimes rip up my homework and threaten to beat me up if i tell
im 13 and in 7th grade and i have failed most of my classes. i have to repeat this grade while all the bullies move on to 8th, why do they do this. dont they know how much it hurts inside… i can’t tell my mom about it or anyone because the bullies will find out and most of them live in my neighborhood and throw stuff at my house. i have to take the blame because they’d beat me up if they got in trouble. they’ve gone as far as popping my mom’s car’s tires and i was grounded for weeks because of that. sometimes rocks get throw threw my window with hateful messages saying “i’m going to f*** you up kid”… i’m a weak person… physical and emotional… they wont ever stop bugging me and getting me in trouble and hurting me…. they have even stolen stuff from our garage that was valueable.. im glad i saw this poasting website, so they won’t know its me and hopefully they won’t see this anyways… if they do i dont know what i’d do. oh and none of that is the worst…. they held me down and got one of their buddies to tattoo the words “******” on my… rear… i can’t ever let my mom see it

does anyone know what i should do/ im scared every single second of my life

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Jason-God of Phallus offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

oh my god this is TERRIBLE.
Why were you grounded for that?!
Okay whatever, besides the main point. The main point is, you are not safe at school and you are not even safe in your own neighborhood. You NEED to tell your mom or a school conselor IMMEDIATELY.

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Jason-God of Phallus offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

and this is effecting your academic performance. This is not right. You need adult help.

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Alexaxas offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Geez, thats a tough one…

If it’s really as bad as you say, physical attacks, vandalism, and theft, you should probably get the police involved. Otherwise, all you can really do is avoid these people when you can and stick up for yourself when you can’t.

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uwiboy200 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

please dont commit suicide.God has a way of turn things around. why not ask him today and see what happens tommorrow

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anonymous offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

i always go to church and sometimes i’m frightened to… although i’m not attacked as much there. the bullies go to the same church as me and always make sure to sit next to me. they act all nice when my mom is around but spit on me when no one is looking

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tawny offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

You need to tell your parents. You are being physically abused. It is their responsibility to protect you. If they can’t or won’t protect you maybe you can move in with aunts uncles or other extended family to get you into a safer place.

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essence offline Verified User (2 months, 4 weeks) Shouts: 46 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

Wow they bully you because they see you as an easy target. This is not acceptable! You shouldve informed your mom when it first started so it wouldnt have gotten to this point. She couldve easily put you in another school near by or something. This is just ridiculous!

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Jason-God of Phallus offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

You MUST tell an adult!!!
Don’t worry about the bullies beating u up if they find out. Adults will protect you!

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ashleyy offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

first of all i want to hug you so -hug-

now, you have to tell somebody. will your parents not believe you?
do teachers see the bullies do things to you?

im guessing this has been going on for a year now?
now that the bullies move up a grade do you think it will stop?

i am definately here for you if you need to talk and figure out how to end this.

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4grac offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (9 hours, 27 minutes after post)

Firstly, God loves you. Secondly people only bully people that they envy. They see something in you that they wish they had. They have the problem not you. You are not a soft target, weak or otherwise inferior - you rock and they can;t handle it.

Please tell your Mom, and do try and join a youth group at a Chruch. Jesus loves you and understands, he was bullied too, and he did nothing wrong.

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beautifuljenna offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (10 hours, 35 minutes after post)

oh my gosh! i cant believe those bullies go that far. i feel terribly sorry for you but you need stand up for yourself otherwise people will walk over you for the rest of your life. the thing is the more you let them get away with it the worse it gets.
you really have to talk to someone or maybe you should even sue those guys. keep in mind they not superhuman. there are ways to make them stop. remember they`re just foolish kids so contacting their parents might be an option.
bullies are just sad, insecure people that try to put you down in order to make themselves feel better. so never forget you`re a good person and dont let their words get you down.

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WashuChan offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 192 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (21 hours, 36 minutes after post)

GO TO THE POLICE! GO TO YOUR MOM! THE PRINCIPAL! Someone! No one should live like this! This is abuse and people can stop it! I hope it gets better! I cant believe kids would do this to you. Please, tell someone. If your parents dont help you, then go to the police. You have evidence on your butt right? dont be sad. You have a right to live happy and safe.

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jbuttocovl offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (2 weeks, 4 days after post)

No matter what keep your head up and go to someone that will make it all stop!! there is nothing wrong with telling someone people are harming you. This is something that can be better if you tell someone and make it aware what your going through. Trust me, Ive been there and it feels great knowing people care about you when you speak up. And now days the problem will end because they enforce for NO child to be treated the way you are being treated. -Jay

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An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 2 days ago (2 months after post)

OMG - that is absolutely terrible, , every1 here is right god lloves u and cares for you. Go and tell your mother - even if she doest do anythin straightaway you shud keep tellin’ her and dnt put off showing that tatoo to your mum - that’s abuse. say to your mom - she may let you take the day off school and then u need to show her what they do and explain all the things u gt blamed for was them not you! you tell your mom and she will take care off you - god will.

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