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my friend called me at 2:40am.

at the time he was my boyfriend but he broke up with me. i really don’t care because we were only going out for two days and i wasn’t really attatched to him or anything yet. i’m 14 [i’ll be fifteen in three weeks] and he just turned eighteen. but anyways, i couldn’t get back to sleep after i got off the phone with him so i went online and he was online so we imed each other for a while and here’s our conversation:

me: hey
him (3:01:52 AM): hi im sry
him (3:01:57 AM): i justfelt u no
him (3:02:17 AM): we needed to be friends
me: yeah i know
him (3:04:12 AM): i dolikeu lot
him (3:05:09 AM): i do
him (3:05:18 AM): u needto talk more
me: i know
him (3:05:36 AM): i dont no how to
him (3:05:55 AM): make talk more
me: i’ll talk more
him (3:06:44 AM): i hope u no i still think ur really cute
me: would we ever get back together?
him (3:08:05 AM): yesiwant to but wee need to talk babe
me: i know
him (3:08:43 AM): id still kissu
him (3:09:37 AM): i would
him (3:10:18 AM): r u there
me: yeah
him (3:10:36 AM): i whould
me: ok
him (3:10:54 AM): whouldu
me: i guess
him (3:11:09 AM): could i be ur frist
me: yeah
him (3:11:27 AM): like make out
me: yeah
him (3:12:11 AM): ican
him (3:12:58 AM): hey
me: yeah
him (3:13:12 AM): next time we chill
me: okay
him (3:14:04 AM): r ujust saying that or do u want to
me: i want to
him (3:14:33 AM): i really want to hold u
him (3:15:27 AM): u
him (3:15:53 AM): r u there
me: yeah
him (3:16:20 AM): answer me babe
me: sorry
him (3:17:32 AM): i wanna hold u
him (3:17:36 AM): rite now
me: aww
him (3:18:31 AM): will u take me back when uwere ready\
me: yeah
him (3:18:50 AM): will u hold me
me: yeah
him (3:19:33 AM): lets pretend were to gether what whould u do
me: i don’t know
me: like what do you mean?
him (3:20:13 AM): like u n me like id hold u n stuff hbu
me: i don’t know
him (3:20:47 AM): whoulduhold me to
me: yeah
him (3:21:13 AM): if i leaned in to kiss u whould u let me
me: yeah
him (3:22:26 AM): id then teach how to make out lol
me: lol
him (3:22:41 AM): n u
me: what?
him (3:23:06 AM): what whouldu do
me: i don’t know
him (3:23:31 AM): whouldukissme back
me: yeah
him (3:23:52 AM): while holding each other
me: yeah
him (3:24:48 AM): i have to tell u some thing
me: what?
him (3:25:09 AM): id do more but it isnt write
him (3:25:40 AM): ur really cute
him (3:25:47 AM): i no i couldnt
him (3:26:24 AM): do u no what im saying
me: yeah
him (3:26:37 AM): whould u ever
me: i don’t know
him (3:27:04 AM): even little stuff
me: like what?
him (3:28:09 AM): u no ur butt is sooocute if i grabedit whouldube mad
me: no
him (3:28:43 AM): whould u like that
me: suree
him (3:29:19 AM): whouldu flash
me: what does that mean? lol
him (3:29:52 AM): nvm
me: what does it mean?
him (3:30:17 AM): do u no what mardi grass is
him (3:30:23 AM): gras is
me: yeah
him (3:30:40 AM): that lol
him (3:31:34 AM): ok im sry but ur really cute babe
me: thanks
him (3:31:46 AM): do u for give me
me: yeah
him (3:32:19 AM): im going to bed

and now i don’t know what to do because at first hes like, “we needed to be friends.” and then he said that he wants to get back together with me. he was my first boyfriend and please don’t think i’m a **** or anything just based on the conversation. should i get back together with him? what is he trying to say in this conversation?

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