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I will put it simply like this.

Life is hard and can suck at times.

Those who commit suicide are taking the cowards way out of life.

Suck it up, move forward, learn to fail, fail to succeed.

find a “news of the weird column” and then try to outdo them.

Sorry to burst your bubble but life is what you make it :)

i feel your pain… life IS a bi*ch
the only thing is tho is that instead of thinkin of all the sh*t in ur life think of all the gr8 things u hav…

i’ve read in the bible to not be anxious about our lives. life is short. and people are going to be dead much much longer than they will be alive. so all we have to do is to enjoy life, have reverence and obey God’s commands.

do pray and read the bible

life’s a b#tch and so am i the world owes me so muck you

Housework housework housework…temportary contracts, restructures, DEPRESSION…family, isolation, cost of living……lack of time to relax life…….

there is good stuff too :-) don’t get bogged down with it all anon, that is the trick :-) remember, the phase ‘this too shall pass :-)’

Take care…it’s good to have a rant sometimes.

Feeling suicidal isn’t often about wanting to be dead it’s about not knowing how to live….lot’s of people feel like that, life is hard. Life is also lovely AND unfortuynately, whether we like it or not, we have to work at it. How many people these days have the tools to navigate such a complex and fragmented society. not that many.

Take care xxxxxx

Franchesca,Are you the poster?If yes, I want to reply about what you said.If not I wont reply out of respect to the poster so it doesnt start an arguemnt

dazmo wrote:
i love people who say “life is what you make it”
it must be great being born with a fresh hand of cards ya know. . .
but the real people
in the real world
with real problems
. . . we still listen to rap

But life is what you make it, your decisions reflect your life and your life reflects your decisions.

franchesca wrote:
life’s a b#tch and so am i the world owes me so muck you

Wow, once again, suck it up, life isnt meant to be easy.

Once we accept life as being hard,then it makes it easier to handle things.We are real people in a real world with real problems,we just have accepted things to not be ‘EASY;’ thats all.

its not me who posted it :) but pease dont bash me :S

I said what I wanted,no bashing :)

Don’t talk **** about suicide until you have a chance to walk in their shoes.
Not everyone grows up with a fancy car or a fancy house, love or care.
They grow up waisting away and thinking theirs no one in the world to care about them or care for. Those people don’t need some person they don’t know bashing them. For their choices or their mistakes.

Life isn’t how you make it its how you choose to live it.

Some choose not to know life, some choose to take it away. It is not us to judge or be judged by others but to put a smile on our face and live life to the best you can. We all make mistakes and none of us is God and remember no one control’s the world. You can control your life not others and be glad that you have that computer to write this blog cause some people only have a box,car to live in.

And life isn’t hard its just confusing once you figure it out, everything will start to make sense and life will ease up…. until then be thankful you have a life, even if it is hard or boring.

‘ life isn’t hard ‘.What planet are you living on?

what i said i meant life isn’t hard, its full of hate and disorder once you pass that and live life the way you feel comfortable it won’t seem hard to you. You just make it hard for yourself, don’t know you but I bet everything was handed to you, and you never worked for anything in your life then I bet it was all taken away and now you cant survive people like you would think it was hard and not confusing

learn to read and understand what people write

coco frog,’What i said i meant life is hard’?? I know we cant always choose our words carefully you said’lifeisnt hard’ but-Your right ,Im sorry for jumping on that statement.(Hey I made a joke.Frog,juming.lol)The only reason i did was to make it clear to the poster that i agree .What you said otherwise was all wonderful advice.so I apologize for not stating that,i was pressed for time at the moment.forgive me?

oh I’m sorry I was pretty stressed too. All these people in here think life is so hard, so did i at one point and feel that sometimes it still is, but its just a escape goat people love to use. I was just sad to read that so many people hate it and wont to die in here and we can do nothing about it. I’m sorry if I hurt your feelings just times think we are all suppose to do more with this life than what we were taught and it makes me want to cry. To me the world is so beautiful and we all **** on it. We are all racist and ugly, we all make the world hard to live in, I want or should say I feel like I’m suppose to help all. I am truly sorry for being the same as everyone else

this is for felicity

coco, NP ,really.you and I and others here are on the same page,we just have different approaches,thats all.I admire your approach ,sometimes its needed and noone wants to put it out there.So you have nothing to apologize for .It was good working with you,thanks for being you :)

cocofrog, was this directed to me?[quote cocofrog]Don’t talk **** about suicide until you have a chance to walk in their shoes.
Not everyone grows up with a fancy car or a fancy house, love or care.
They grow up waisting away and thinking theirs no one in the world to care about them or care for. Those people don’t need some person they don’t know bashing them. For their choices or their mistakes.’ If it was i have walked in their shoes in fact i’ve been worse than most here.Catatonic is the lowest a person could be .it was living hell.And I didn’t have any of what was mentioned either.-Still dont have most of whats mentioned.

no felicity some one at the top

oh, ok :)

Felicity this is who I was talking about, and I use to be like what I wrote and have walked in the shoes I talked about more than once, I use to abuse my self and tried to slit my wrist more than once, to breaking the silence, we don’t see it as the easy way out we see it as a chance to end the pain that consumes us, its a chance to be really free…. Someone like you ( breaking the silence) wouldn’t possibly understand cause you have everything in life to make you happy.

this is what he or she wrote:
Breaking The Silence

I will put it simply like this.

Life is hard and can suck at times.

Those who commit suicide are taking the cowards way out of life.

Suck it up, move forward, learn to fail, fail to succeed.