Feel help: apparently i am the most annoying person in the world.

acousticlove0

San Ramon, CA, US

apparently i am the most annoying person in the world.

one of my best friends gets mad at me because i call him and IM him a lot, and apparently i make him feel bad b/c i really enjoy talking to him and i THINK i might be falling in love with him…. but anyways i was IMing him and he changed his status to ‘not here’ but i KNEW he was there so i asked him why he was pretending he wasnt. to this he replyed “because i dont want to be” and i asked him why and he asked “y duz it matter 2 u” and i said “because we’re frends” yatta yatta so it went on like that . he was acting all annoyed so then i asked “so r u gonna talk 2 me” and he sed “no” and then i said “oh… :’(” b/c he’s my best frend and i KNEW that he could talk if he wanted to. so then he started ranting “i just dont have all day to talk to you and u act like i do and make me feel bad when i have to tell u i dont or cant” and i said “well sorry” and he thought i was being sarcastic (which i partially was) so then he called me a jerk because apparently i am “so selfish and not-understanding and sarcastic” and i make him feel bad about stuff he shouldn’t. i said “im sorry im not trying to make u feel bad” and then he said “well try to be a little more understanding! sometimes i cant talk to you” and i said “right now you can” and he started yelling @ me that hes busy doing other things so then i said id shut up and stop talking to him and he got all… idk how to describe it, maybe high-and-mighty and said “well thats what my stat wuz suggesting but apparently you dont get it” and he logged off.

am i right or is he?

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love #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

oh the drama. clean your freaken room and wash!

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Anonymous #
4 months ago (4 minutes after post)

what an ***

acousticlove0 5 #
San Ramon, CA, US | 4 months ago (5 minutes after post)

???????? ok this person is like my best frend in the world and he keeps on getting mad @ me for nothing

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Sounds like your smothering him. Not at all a good way to treat a freind, and not good at all to treat a boyfriend (since you say you like him).

Your wrong not him. give him his space.

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archykins 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (11 minutes after post)

the harshest words are those said in the heat of anger. Maybe you were pushing him to far, it could just be he was set to offline because he had nothing he wanted to say or was having a hard time at that moment emotionally. Its possible he said those things in an attempt just to have you leave him alone and possibly may feel really bad about it. Arguing online is never the way to go. try having a heart to heart.

Anonymous #
4 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Maybe if u just gave him sme room- it helps u to appritate thing when they are taken away from u- also i would try when u do start speaking again- not being so … attention seeking (not in a bad way!) i hope this helps

Anonymous #
4 months ago (15 minutes after post)

you were right. he might think you are a little clingy, so back off 4 awhile. he will totally miss you and ya. dont worry, you arent the most annoying person in the world…my sister is! lol

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Abingdon, K2, GB | 4 months ago (18 minutes after post)

If he said them in anger, its cuz, prehaps, he doesn’t wana loose you as a friend. I’m not deffending his actions, prehaps he could have delt with it in a better way. But If he noticed that prehaps you we’re talkin to him about stuff some one would only say to a BF, prehaps he got scared.

Prehaps If you say. I’m sorry dude If i scared you with how much I talked to you, but your a really good friend, I don’t wana loose you as a friend, I trust you with that sort of stuff, don’t let our friendship end like this

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (19 minutes after post)

that is some great advice trouble_soul.

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Anonymous #
4 months ago (20 minutes after post)

O- and if he gats clingy- u know what to do

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (21 minutes after post)

totally! haha

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