Looks like you two have a decision to make.
you think? or shoud I just ride the wave
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oh as much as you would enjoy still seeing her youve got to stop
how would YOU feel if you found out your girl was seeing someone behind your back.
If you ride the wave, there will be two divorces soon. Or two long miserable marriages.
Your choice is to quit your respective engagements and pursue a relationship together. Or to each come clean to your fiances, tell the truth, rebuild, and have a foundation of truth for your marriages.
you are rigt..but what do you do when you find someone who has been through the same **** youve been through in life..
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Respect the people who have promised to love you for a lifetime, by not deceiving them. If what you have found is true, don’t sneak around.
Dont forget that I am not married yet and neither is she..
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How do I help also and go back to my page
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jcaran wrote:
you are rigt..but what do you do when you find someone who has been through the same **** youve been through in life..
you be friends.
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How do I help also and go back to my page
Under the Public Profile blue link is a link for My Posts. Or just open a new tab and type in help.com. You’ll be logged in on both tabs.
Why is that the best choice? What if the other girl is the one..I am soooo confused!!
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No one can tell you which girl is the better choice.
I agree with sansceriph, no one here can tell you which girl is better for you, as none of us know either of them…
and I would agree that you do need to make a decision…to not decide is to loose the choice, and most likely to loose both when they find out.
however I would say that to trust your initial instinct, and to trust in the girl who has stood by your side, and put 6yrs of investment(in time and money) into your relationship, would not be a bad idea.
I conquer. She is amazing..But this other girl..Shes also amazing and not only am i more physically attracted to her, but she was raised by a single mother just like me and was poor in her youth just like me and has fought very hard to be where she is at today just like me and works out just like me and is a teacher just like me and helps her mom economically just like me!!
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Why is that the best choice? What if the other girl is the one..I am soooo confused!!
then if you think shes the one you should break up with your current girlfriend and then entertain your options
is that how you spell conquer? please correct
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Thanks.. By the way amy reading your posts be careful with the 22 year old..Try to stick with someone your own age..Unfortunately western society frowns upon men dating girls under the age of 18. Its funny, thats not how it was in the beginning.
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i know isnt it weird
i just dont know he came on kind of strong but let down after that
so i dont really know whats going on
ill stick to this boy i sorta like whos a senior :)
Its best that you stick with the younger guy. You never know, Maybe this older guy just wants something else and is trying to take advantage. Or maybe not. Who knows but im sure it just aint worth it. Well, I think Im off to bed now. Ill probably lay and think of what is the best choice. Unfortunately, I don’t feel like I got the answer i needed or the sign.
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Amy, thanks and remember that boys will come by the hundreds..Just make sure to pick the one that is there for you and at the same time sweeps you off your feet.
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I think perhaps each of you should call off your engagements. OR - do what that other guy said - - come clean. You HAve to make a decision though. There is SOME REASON you two decided to jeapordize so many years with your (current) partners. I think getting married, for either of you, is a bad idea. You said, ‘were not married Yet’ as if it is any better - you are both engaged - that is committed, yes? So- you have to make a choice. IT sounds as though maybe the two of you have to leave your partners…unless you try to come clean and work it out…wow….well- at least you now know how that can happen and in the future will avoid innocent lunches, eh? not said as a punishment said as a, so thats how these things happen…ugh…hope it works out. whatEVER you do - dont get married without addressing this one way or another…it’ll get you later I think.
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