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I feel terrible…

I just found out my girlfriend now lives in a different state….. what do I do now?

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~Lucy~ offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 44 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (0 minutes after post)

well were did you think she lived

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Holy Raspberry offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (1 minute after post)

That’s not an easy question..

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United We Stand offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (1 minute after post)

In Texas but she lives somewhere else and told me I cant tell anybody

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Holy Raspberry offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Okay…Any idea why she moved?

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United We Stand offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

nope

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Holy Raspberry offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

If she told you you can’t tell anybody, do you think she’s running or hiding from something? Maybe trying to leave something behind?

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~Lucy~ offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 44 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (4 minutes after post)

have you ever met her

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tricky offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 25 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (4 minutes after post)

lucie wrote:
have you ever met her

lol

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United We Stand offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Ashlo wrote:
If she told you you can’t tell anybody, do you think she’s running or hiding from something? Maybe trying to leave something behind?

I don’t think so….she just doesn’t trust alot of people with where she lives

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Holy Raspberry offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Why not? Did something happen?
Also, how long have y’all been together, and how close are you?

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~Lucy~ offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 44 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (6 minutes after post)

well she could be an internet girlfriend,

tricky wrote:

lucie wrote:
have you ever met her

lol

i just don’t get how you didn’t know where she lived

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United We Stand offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (7 minutes after post)

well, i know where she lives now but i cant tell anybody else

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Holy Raspberry offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Why do you think she doesn’t want you to tell people?

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~Lucy~ offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 44 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (8 minutes after post)

do you need to tell anyone

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~Lucy~ offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 44 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (9 minutes after post)

if not, stop worrying enjoy each other and be happy

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United We Stand offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Ashlo wrote:
Why do you think she doesn’t want you to tell people?

She has this thing of not trusting people that she doesnt know, but I dont get mad at her about it or anything

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Holy Raspberry offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Hm, that’s odd, though not crazy or anything.

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United We Stand offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Well I encourage her not to tell anybody she doesn’t know :D

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Holy Raspberry offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Why? Protective? (I don’t mean that as an insult, if it’s taken that way)

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United We Stand offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (14 minutes after post)

None taken :D Yeah, with those online predators in every dark corner of the web just waiting sitting there all day with no life but preying on younger people…

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Holy Raspberry offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Ah, yes. An uplifting thought. I guess where she moved doesn’t matter (does it?). How close where y’all?

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United We Stand offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (16 minutes after post)

Close enough see each other everyday…..but im just emailing her for now :)

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Holy Raspberry offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (16 minutes after post)

Oh, I mean how long have you been together.

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tricky offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 25 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (17 minutes after post)

lucie wrote:
well she could be an internet girlfriend,

tricky wrote:
lucie wrote:
have you ever met her
lol
i just don’t get how you didn’t know where she lived

hehe yeah i know i figured that out but come on having a gf online at least go out some times than after that u’ll see ^_^

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United We Stand offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (18 minutes after post)

well uh we’ve been together for a few months now……and online gfs……you cant tell wether they really like you or are joking

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Holy Raspberry offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Hm. But you say you feel terrible, so you did really like her?

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United We Stand offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (19 minutes after post)

yeah, you can read my little quotes next to my avatar at the top of this page if you want :D

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Holy Raspberry offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Didn’t see that one, sorry. So you love her, eh? Ouch, that must be rought. That’s no help, though. I think you should try to discover why she moved. If anything, it could at least clear things up.

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United We Stand offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Lol yeah it could :D

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Holy Raspberry offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (23 minutes after post)

Is she within a distance that you could travel to at least every once in a while?

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United We Stand offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (24 minutes after post)

My parents hate providing transportation so i dont think so

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Holy Raspberry offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (24 minutes after post)

Ah, how old are you?

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United We Stand offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (24 minutes after post)

13

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United We Stand offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (25 minutes after post)

young for here :D

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Holy Raspberry offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (25 minutes after post)

If you’re thirteen only, then it seems like there’s not much you can do (I’m 14, though). If she lives in a different state, it might not work out, man.

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United We Stand offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (26 minutes after post)

yeah and to make it worse, ive been moving around alot and i might be moving to Houston soon……ugh……

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Holy Raspberry offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (27 minutes after post)

Where do you live now?

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United We Stand offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (27 minutes after post)

Longview TX

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United We Stand offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (28 minutes after post)

harder to go long distances with these gas prices rocketing

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Holy Raspberry offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (28 minutes after post)

Yeah, that’s true.
I live in Ausin.
If it doesn’t work out, it seems like the only thing you can do is hope for the best in the future, maybe maintain friendly relations while seeing other people (if you want), and you might be able to date her sometime.

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United We Stand offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (32 minutes after post)

Yeah, well thanks!!!!

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