Family help: PLEASE HELP ME I MITE BE PREGNANT AND IM REALLY SCARED! - Help.com

sorry but….

1. why didnt you use a condom???
2. why wouldnt they let you get a pill???
3. why is your boyfriend so much older???
4. YOURE FIFTEEN! what are you doingggg???????

Well, i think RIGHT NOW, there is no point in quentioning her, the reasons are obvious and it would only make her feel worse.

get a pregnancy test, and find out if you are pregnant, you cant make a decision without knowing for sure if you are pregnant.

Once you confirm you are pregnant.. then you can make a desicion.

Well, i do see the problem you are facing. You are under age, and he is 18, but you should check with a doctor to see if you are pregnant, regardless. Because an abortion can only be done within a certain amount of time. You can only hope that he will not get in trouble. But before this, you most likely should tell someone, a close friend or a parent, and maybe they can help also.

Firstly tell your parents.
Secondly check.
Thirdly do not have an abortion.

i cant tell my family i live with my grandparents they think so much of me it would kill them off if i told them cz i have kept denyin about sleepin with my bf for so long =[

Then tell a friend, or call your parents, and explain. Get a pregnancy test, and handle it from there. If you feel that an abortion is right, do it, if not, don’t. You can only hope your boyfriend doesn’t have a rough time from you being under age. Idk, i had two ppl in my school who were underage, and the girl kept the baby, and neither got in trouble. He might not get in trouble if you explain it someone. Does your boyfriend know you might be pregnant? When you find out wether u are pregnant or not you should tell him and your parents first.

Anonymous wrote:
i cant tell my family i live with my grandparents they think so much of me it would kill them off if i told them cz i have kept denyin about sleepin with my bf for so long =[

Ok well keeping it a secret won’t do you any good. Because if you really ARE pregannt, then your grandparents will get a lovely surprise when they start to notice that your belly is getting bigger and you have giant cravings. Tell them, so that they can help you get the help you need and they can help make a decision about what you should do with the baby. Also, if you wait for them to figure it out, they will take it more angrily.

thanks you guys you have made me think about what i should do =] i just hope social services dont have 2 get involved and my boyfriend doesnt go 2 prison cz if he did i wouldnt wanna live any more =[

i doubt he will get in trouble.

Anonymous wrote:
sorry but….

1. why didnt you use a condom???
2. why wouldnt they let you get a pill???
3. why is your boyfriend so much older???
4. YOURE FIFTEEN! what are you doingggg???????

not helpful and pointless to say. 3 year age gap isn;t that big.

I think u shud take a pregnancy test to be 100% sure. just because u had sex doesn;t mean u are definetely going to be pregnant. I know ur afraid but if u don’t get urself to see the reality of the situation and u try to hide from it, it isn’t going to help you. what is is and nothing can change that whether u want to hide from it or not.

I think u shud find a friend u trust and talk to them about this and ask if you can take the test with them so ur not on ur own when u find the truth.

but remember to learn to use protection in FUTURE.

and i recommend u tell ur grandparents after u take a pregnancy test. because if u find ur not pregnant then u don;t need to tell them u slept with this guy.

spiritedsoul wrote:
and i recommend u tell ur grandparents after u take a pregnancy test. because if u find ur not pregnant then u don;t need to tell them u slept with this guy.

i agree highly.