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ixluvxboy
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Hanapepe, HI, US

this was few month ago when my first love has died in an accident.

i love him so much and i miss him.
i want him back and i want to see him.
is death the only choice?
when i hear this song his face just comes up to me and everything comes to me.
what should i do?

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blue soul offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (7 minutes after post)

i’m so sorry for ur loss….this is tragical
but imagine wat would he say when u think about dying or when ur in so much pain..?
i think he would want u to move on with ur life and live happily holding on to ur sweet memories together and by living life the way he would want u to live…
i know its so hard and that no words anyone could ever say to ease ur pain of losing him except that he would hate to see u like this, so try to make him happy by living a long happy life filled with love….

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4 months ago (17 minutes after post)

There are moments in life when you miss someone so much …

… that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real! When the door of happiness closes, another opens; but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one which has been opened for us. Don’t go for looks; they can deceive. Don’t go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile. Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do. May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you humble, enough hope to make you happy.

The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can’t go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so at the end, you’re the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying. The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

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ixluvxboy offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Hanapepe, HI, US | 4 months ago (19 minutes after post)

i want to move on i really do but something is holding me back.

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rebek~always offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
US | 4 months ago (20 minutes after post)

i agree,and think their is nothing we can say to ease your pain,but with time it will ease and just hold on to the good thing’s,i know you must feel so alone now so i think the best thing you can do is talk about him,your relationship,and anything that makes you feel better.im sorry for your loss and i know you will hae the strenght to move on and with time you will heal,may god be with you in this hard time in life and may you feel love once more *REALLY BIG HUGG”S FROM ME TO YOU*

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undeveloped offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (37 minutes after post)

all you can do is just wait until you die. dont kill yourself tho. sometimes the memories are the best thing. just thinkin of him and seein his face should make you happy. you can wait. its gunna be hard. but true love never dies. you have him now

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