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I just met this guy 3 or 4 days ago.

We talked and had a good time when we met, and we also got each other’s phone number’s. Is it bad that the guy is busy and seems to have no time to squeeze me into his life? Is there any hope this will go any where?

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dancefloordestroyer offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (0 minutes after post)

It’s only been a few days, how do you know hes too busy to fit you into his life?
How did you meet?

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Belle Latina offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

HERE IS THE SECRET:

Dont call him, wait till he calls YOU, and always be the one who has to hang up, dont be rude, just let him think that you like him a lil bit, but dont make yourself look so available. and if he leaves a voice mail, wait one day or two to call him back… TRUST ME ON THIS ONE

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Belle Latina offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Man love what they cannot have, or dont have so much control over it

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mariposa2008 offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I suppose there is always hope! So it’s Tuesday morning in my world, so you met him Thursday or Friday or Saturday, how can you be sure?

If he calls, be delightful.

If he doesn’t, I guess join a convent…or wait…go out again next weekend and make new friends! ;)

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moonlightshadow_2 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Well I was in the CD store in the mall and went up to him and just started having some small talk. He seemed to like me a bit then. He also texted me first later that night and said he was glad I came up to him.

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dancefloordestroyer offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Like i said, its only been a few days, don’t worry about it too much at the moment. Just go with the flow and see where it takes you…

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moonlightshadow_2 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Okay, Thank You all for your advice! I appreciate it

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dancefloordestroyer offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (27 minutes after post)

I’m not a guy, but I can imagine that playing games like that must get pretty annoying, it annoys girls (well me anyway) so why wouldn’t it annoy guys too?

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moonlightshadow_2 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (30 minutes after post)

Well he talks to me when I talk to him,but he never seems to give that same effort back. I’m also afraid that if I just stop talking to him he’ll forget about me.

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dancefloordestroyer offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Whoa thats weird, I have the same thing going on with a friend of mine. Dazmo, I think you may have to shed some light for us on that one…

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moonlightshadow_2 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (32 minutes after post)

That’s true. Bella’s way may work ,but I feel like there maybe be a new way out there that I don’t know about yet.

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moonlightshadow_2 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (35 minutes after post)

What is it that guys want in a girl now days? What is the key to winning them over?

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rncwnd home safe offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (46 minutes after post)

if it’s meant to be, it will happen, regardless of any games you might play. if this person is right for you, you will know. trust in the universe, be honest and be yourself.

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Belle Latina offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 hours, 18 minutes after post)

what i think guy want in a girl, is confience, just like we girls like confident guys.
And I really think that making yourself not so available all the time works even more than always making the first move and be there everytime he feels like talking to you.

If you are telling me that this guy looks like he is loosing interest by not giving you the same effort back, it think is because you are too available.

I could be wrong

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