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i am ok.

or i like to think that i am. passed the all important exam of my life. had proven myself to everybody, including myself. God continues to love and bless me. got a job still, excited for a promotion and a new job assignment. excited to shed some pounds. excited to look and feel beautiful again. excited to fall in love again. life may not be perfect but for now i am quite happy and contented. though usually it’s more of a personal battle and struggle. it is really a choice to be happy and contented or be depressed, hopeless and sad. just a rant though :p

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qbnightmare2 offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Grand Rapids, MI, US | 4 months ago (9 minutes after post)

True, you are what you believe and you feel what you want to, you wanna be depressed you’re depressed if you wanna be happy your happy.

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Breaking The Silence offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
Fort Lauderdale, FL, US | 4 months ago (10 minutes after post)

I think you chose right. I mean its like choosing between a sweet awesome puppy and moldy bread. I mean come on who doesnt love an awesome puppy.

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Radiohead_Phreak offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (22 minutes after post)

ill have the moldy bread with a tall glass of sour milk please

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αиgєl♥ offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1,068 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (22 minutes after post)

im sorry i kinda disagree when you say its your own choice to be depressed. its not anyones choice. nobody wants to be that way. i suffer from clinical depression and it is most definetely NOT my choice to be this way. its not like i say to myself… hmm… i think im gonna be depressed.

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Breaking The Silence offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
Fort Lauderdale, FL, US | 4 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Well there is 2 kind of depression one bing clinical and the other being pychological. Difference is, one is a chemical inbalance and the other is from your own doing or from the actions around you.

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okei! offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (42 minutes after post)

yeah. and a person could be in one deep sh1t but if he can still find happiness from within/ even from where he is, then i think he is ok.

clinical depression is somewhat difficult to handle for medications come into play. but still, the person depressed is still in control

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αиgєl♥ offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1,068 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (43 minutes after post)

what do you mean the perosn depressed is still in control??

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okei! offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (44 minutes after post)

i mean, more/ less he is still lucid. so he still has control over his actions/ feelings. it would have been difficult if he is totally lunatic

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Breaking The Silence offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
Fort Lauderdale, FL, US | 4 months ago (47 minutes after post)

Personal depression isnt controlled its an emotion. The choice is us acting upon this emotion in the wrong way which causes us to fall substance to our own creation.

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Radiohead_Phreak offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (52 minutes after post)

clinical depression is a senceless lable once you realise that you will be able to retrain yourself angel_devil095. I am diagnosed with the same condition yet i am trying to fight it. I am sick of being depressed i am 21 years old at the prime of my life yet i live and act like a middle aged man…

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okei! offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (56 minutes after post)

i hope all of us will be fine. we all deserve it anyway.

sometimes our day does not work out the way we want it to be. but GOD gave us this day. so just be glad in it.

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αиgєl♥ offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1,068 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (56 minutes after post)

okay thanks disco_stud. im just nto there yet i guess but im glad you said that cuz now i feel i actually have hope. we deserve it? how do we deserve it?

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αиgєl♥ offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1,068 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (57 minutes after post)

im sorry for questioning your beliefs…. im not saying your wrong im just wondering what you mean by that

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okei! offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (58 minutes after post)

its ok. not really a belief though but a state i want to be in.

we all deserve to be fine and happy. nobody deserves to be torn into pieces.

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αиgєl♥ offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1,068 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

OHH omg im so sorry i misread what you wrote. i thought yo uwrote me all deserve to be depressed and i was like wooow. thats a weird thing to say… lol but i re read it and im sorry :P

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okei! offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (1 hour, 29 minutes after post)

lol, its ok. maybe my english was not that clear though. my native language is really filipino :p

anyway, we are God’s finest creatures. made after His own image and likeness. we all deserve to be fine and happy. we owe it to Him. we owe it to ourselves.

no matter how deep sh1t we’re into, it will all too pass. it will all be finish. moreover, enough of the self-inflicted pain and punishment. i wish all of us well and happiness.

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αиgєl♥ offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1,068 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

i totally agree with you!
and no it wasnt youre english at all! im just tired and my eyes are messed up at the moment cuz of it. hahaa not you at all. im totally at fault :P

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 days, 15 hours after post)

i understand how you feel. life has its ups & downs. you may have what you want, you be excited and looking forward to new things, you may be blessed with the company of your family & friends, you may be strengthened with your faith in God - but still you seem unhappy. happiness is really a state of mind. you chose to be happy. what makes you happy doesn’t necessarily make other people happy as well. always be thankful for what you have. they say making a gratitude journal is very helpful to keep track of things to be thankful for. list at least 5 things you are grateful for in a day. pray more & often. i think having more private dialogues with God will help find some peace & contentment within you.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (3 days, 10 hours after post)

Good for you! :) You have a good attitute on life….

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okei! offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (3 days, 10 hours after post)

thanks. a work in progress.
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