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explain more about whats happening.

you know the same is with me most of the time.
if you read some of my old posts you’ll under what boat i’ve been in.
all i can say for you is i’m here if u need me ok?
anything at all.

There is always someone to talk to You just have to humble yourself to ask for help. And most people are willing to give it that is why people are on here to help others and to have others help themeselves

I think i’ve forgotten how to talk to people. i feel so alienated

well at least struggling with this window is distracting me from crying. lets see if I can come up with another email address

well talk to me.
we can get to know each other before you tell me anything,
but yesh….
if your willing to talk to me im here and you can always ask for my email.

i don’t even know what to say. it’s like being alone for so long i don’t know how to talk like other people any more. why does everyone else seem so normal and i so freakish?

thanks. it just seems like everyone else is ok with themselves but not with me. i am so easily tossed around.

I dont believe that you are just a person going through a ruff time and we all hit that point in life but if were strong enough we always seem to come out a better person with more confidense. Just remember people do care and are there to help you

i am the type with no anchor at all. i live a normal life but inside i can’t validate myself. i have no friends at all. it’s worse to try to find friends when you really need them already

thanks. wanna hang out tomorrow?
j/k
how does a person not feel like a loser all the time

where i am too..
is there a trick to it?

just a nothing. no one even knows i exist. done nothing good with my life. socially inadequate

Bein a loser is a state of mind if you think you are than your gonna act like you are. Surround yourself with family to boost yourself than go out and just talk to people and your gonna see that if you surround yourself with people who think positive it will rub off

im easily affected by others thoughts of me. being around people is like being buffeted around by strong winds. i feel like i am looking through a kaleidoscope when i talk to people.

thanks tailwinds. i have been hidden for a long time

exactly tailwind. But remember trust the things you know are certain one thing that always helps me is knowing that no matter what i do the sun will rise and its a new day and thats a miracle all of its own

yes.

where does one acquire one of those shield things?

and i cant seem to help validating everyone elses experience, even of me

a counselor told me that a long time ago. usually it just makes me feel like I’m going to pass out. i’m a little odd in the sensory department. those relaxation tapes make me want to crawl right out of my skin

maybe im not supposed to do it so quickly. ;)

live in the burbs. kids. animals. cleaning. invisibility.

zoom?

hee. yeah. that and some brain waves and social skills

well, id love to be that crazy happy too. but the social skills thing has always been there and when I get done having fun, i still don’t have any friends.

yes. not so much time and money for hobbies

how do you pick a hobby anyways. i mean there are a zillion interests and only so much life