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Cell

What can I do!

? I’m sad. My (very good) job is ending in less than 1 month and I haven’t been able to find anything else. Had 1 interview but didn’t get the job. We can’t pay for the mortgage without my income.

My grandma’s dying she hasn’t had anything to eat/drink in 3 days.

My brother’s a drug addict and I don’t want to be around him because he’s aggressive and acts crazy. I have a little girl. I told my mom we’re not coming over when he’s there. Seriously, I was scared. Last time it almost came down to a physical fight when we were at my mom’s house. Now we’re not celebrating Father’s Day as a family.

I want to have another baby but maybe I can’t.

I’m sad.

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Cell edited this post 1 year, 5 months ago. Read the previous text »

I’m sad. My (very good) job is ending in less than 1 month and I haven’t been able to find anything else. Had 1 interview but didn’t get the job. We can’t pay for the mortgage without my income.

My grandma’s dying she hasn’t had anything to eat/drink in 3 days.

My brother’s a drug addict and I don’t want to be around him because he’s aggressive and acts crazy. I have a little girl. I told my mom we’re not coming over when he’s there. Seriously, I was scared. Last time it almost came down to a physical fight when we were at my mom’s house. Now we’re not celebrating Father’s Day as a family.

I want to have another baby buy maybe I can’t.

I’m sad.

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Stubby123 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (16 minutes after post)

i know it seems like there may be nothing ahead of you or nothing to look forward to, but just try to keep your chin up. remember, you have only had 1 interview, you still have your little girl, and everything else ahead of you.

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Cell 45 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 5 months ago (18 minutes after post)

I wish there was something I can do to ‘fix’ everything. What can I do?!

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Cell edited this post 1 year, 5 months ago. Read the previous text »

I’m sad. My (very good) job is ending in less than 1 month and I haven’t been able to find anything else. Had 1 interview but didn’t get the job. We can’t pay for the mortgage without my income.

My grandma’s dying she hasn’t had anything to eat/drink in 3 days.

My brother’s a drug addict and I don’t want to be around him because he’s aggressive and acts crazy. I have a little girl. I told my mom we’re not coming over when he’s there. Seriously, I was scared. Last time it almost came down to a physical fight when we were at my mom’s house. Now we’re not celebrating Father’s Day as a family.

I want to have another baby but maybe I can’t.

I’m sad.

Help me with: How can I make my house feel more spacious and roomy?

Cell edited this post 1 year, 5 months ago. Read the previous text »

What can I do!? I’m sad. My (very good) job is ending in less than 1 month and I haven’t been able to find anything else. Had 1 interview but didn’t get the job. We can’t pay for the mortgage without my income.

My grandma’s dying she hasn’t had anything to eat/drink in 3 days.

My brother’s a drug addict and I don’t want to be around him because he’s aggressive and acts crazy. I have a little girl. I told my mom we’re not coming over when he’s there. Seriously, I was scared. Last time it almost came down to a physical fight when we were at my mom’s house. Now we’re not celebrating Father’s Day as a family.

I want to have another baby but maybe I can’t.

I’m sad.

Help me with: How can I make my house feel more spacious and roomy?

Stubby123 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (21 minutes after post)

first, get some medical help for your grandmother. also try to get help for your brother. just try to stay calm with your family and talk to them

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hansolo2031 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (22 minutes after post)

I would wait on having another kid, and I wouldnt introduce your kid to an abusive family if you can help it, that will just teach the kid bad things in the future. There may not seem like there are a lot of jobs out there, but if you really try, you will see that there are a lot of options.

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Cell 45 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 5 months ago (22 minutes after post)

She’s in the hospital. She will die. It’s only a matter of time. There is nothing more they can do for her.

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Cell 45 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 5 months ago (23 minutes after post)

hansolo2031 wrote:
I would wait on having another kid, and I wouldnt introduce your kid to an abusive family if you can help it, that will just teach the kid bad things in the future. There may not seem like there are a lot of jobs out there, but if you really try, you will see that there are a lot of options.

Thanks. My family isn’t abusive. Just my bro. I will stay away from him.

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Stubby123 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (24 minutes after post)

oh im so sorrry

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karate_chik9 0 #
Vancouver, BC, CA | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 38 minutes after post)

My brother is a drug addict as well, i refuse to go near the house when hes there, and i dont have my own kid. so i dont blame you on that one.
As for the job, put the resume out there, everywhere.
talk to friends, family, see if theres a good paying job somewhere.
Get a job at a factory or something that pays well,
make it a temporary job until you can find a job that suits you better.
as for your grandmother, i am very sorry, i can only send my prayer out for her.
If you cant find a job, maybe try applying for a line of credit with the bank until you can get back on your feet.
As for the second baby, well, nobody is financially ready ever to have a kid, so, if you want another one, i say go for it, but i’d wait until you find a job first. even if its just a temporary one.

Best of luck!

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Cell 45 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 41 minutes after post)

Thank you.

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Felicity 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 hours, 40 minutes after post)

Oh honey ((BIG BEAR Hugs)) to YOU…….You are not helpless.spend as much time with grandma as possible,tell her you love her…….Maybe this isn’t the best time to have a child since your out of work and all.You will find another job eventually and I prayed for your brother…….Now ,tomorrows another day,keep the hope :)

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pink33 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (6 hours, 52 minutes after post)

I am very sorry to hear about your Grandma. I went through the same thing with my Grandpa and also my boyfriend went through it with his Grandma. I know what it feels like. I know how it feels to see someone else go through it too. So I hope that you can say your goodbye to her and make peace with it(if that is at all possible) I’m sorry I don’t have any advice to offer about your brother. I have had family members go through the same thing but not close ones. ALso I would like to know about what kind of job experience you have, if thats not too personal… I live in Winnipeg and maybe I can come up with some ideas of other places for you to apply. If you are interested … let me know.

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Max 195 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (7 hours, 57 minutes after post)

Just got back and wow…Well my friend..I’ve been there and at the end of the day we have to dig in. Don’t let any issues take any joy from your child. Protect your little girl, because all this crap will harm and change her for life..Step up to the plate and use your head instead of your heart and arms. Have someone of authority talk to your brother and that will let him know you mean business. See your Mom every minute you can. Go immediately to the Doctor or down stairs to outpatients and get put out of work on a stress leave. Plus, the most important thing of all…..let your little girl and you share fathers day together. It’s their day to give to you..don’t let anybody take that..Time to be a Dad and be strong. Walk with pride and lead by example of a cool, calm head. I wish for your mom to be comfortable and peaceful..She loves you and her granddaughter. I remember mine and I was 4 years old. I loved her and still miss her today (43yrs later). God Bless

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