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I’M TOO AWKWARD AROUND BOYS!

!! I used to not be but now I’m always shy and trip over my worrrrrrddds. help!

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (0 minutes after post)

Just chill out, compose yourself, and start small. Say hi when you pass them in the halls, be genuine, smile.

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luvAnnieMay offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (4 minutes after post)

im a girl and im shy
strangely im not shy at all with boys than I am with girls

it’s all about feeling comfortable with yourself because that’s how I am when I with boys
then they’ll be comfortable with you and they won’t see you as awkward

so what Commander Ikari said
“Chill out, compose yourself, and start out small.” :)

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4 years, 11 months ago (11 minutes after post)

thankyou!

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ambrutellow offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 11 months ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

Boys are silly. I was walking down the hallway once with this boy I liked and I just slammed into the wall ( I am very clumsy), and he still liked me. They don’t care if you stumble or trip over your words or are shy. Just like the other two said, be yourself, be shy, be awkward, be whatever just own it and be comfortable with yourself.

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sweet_lil_babe0 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (3 weeks, 4 days after post)

well i know it’s always easier said then done, but you just need to be confident with yourself. whenever you are in a public place don’t be shy to look around you to see what’s up, and whenever you see a boy anytime, just casually look him directly in the eyes. the more you interact with boys, the more you will feel chill. and remember everyone deals with insecurities. no one is better then you! just always be yourself

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alllisoncarte offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (5 months, 1 week after post)

i have the same problem.
and its like ALL boys.
even if there not cute, and i have no interest in them, im still sooo awkward when i talk to one.
i hateeee it,
and the funny thing is, im not shy at all.
not during class, not to teachers, not to friends, no one…
except boys. *sigh*

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