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sorry this is a somewhat random and im sure confusing post but i dont know what to do and i just need to kind of let some emotions out.

so my grandmother died in September of 2005 and its been EXTREMELY hard to deal with her death. my whole family has been through so much and after so long and thinking that that all has been taken care of we got a call tonight. (i guess before continuing i should tell you that im 15 and i was the one who answered the phone.) ok…so on the other line was my grandmothers friend and she had called to tell us that she had finally made it here to boise (idaho) from california. and understanding that she is really old…she hung up the phone just as fast as she told me who she was.

i know that probably sounds extremely random but for me its so emotional because my parents have been a** holes to me ever since i was little and my grandma was the only one that would listen. so now im stuck not knowing what to do–i dont have any friends i can reach out to and my family doesnt understand.

sorry if any of that doesnt make sense…im crying and basically hysterical right now because i dont know what to do or how to take it.

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Gaurdian_Angel offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Dont cry. just try to find someone else who cares about you

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Your Grandmother can do more good for you in heaven then she could here. Stay connected to her.

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1 year, 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

i have a feeling that God is ready to place a new soul in your life who will be even closer to you. Give yourself a break, relax and be open. Some new seeds will be planted in your life soon.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Just relax… there are good people all around you..js havent met them yet.. it didn’t make much sense to me but everything should work out on its own.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (7 minutes after post)

i dont even know what to talk about or how i would even make any sense

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1 year, 5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

^^^
sorry..that was me tho…

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angel♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (9 minutes after post)

wait. im sorry i dont know if i fully understand. why did your grandmothers friend call?
and ill listen to if you need to talk. just let everything out!

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1 year, 5 months ago (10 minutes after post)

i dont even know why she called–it was sooo random–i didnt even know who she was at first until she said who she was.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (12 minutes after post)

oh okay. so she just said who it was and then hung up?

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1 year, 5 months ago (13 minutes after post)

yea basically–she didnt like even leave a phone number so i could call her back

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (18 minutes after post)

thats so weird.
if you everneed to talk about your grandma im here. my grandad died 2 years ago and he was my bestfriend in the entire world. we did everything together and i still cry myself to sleep every night about it :( so if yo uneed to talk im seirously here

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1 year, 5 months ago (18 minutes after post)

mk thanks

i think im going to get some sleep for now–probably would be best

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (19 minutes after post)

ya that would be good =)
i hope you have a good nights sleep and feel better soon k?

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1 year, 5 months ago (23 minutes after post)

ok

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1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

You might consider trying to contact her through a medium. Don’t laugh, it might work. I sure speaking with her would make you feel better.

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