Words for someone who got cheated on.
How do you tell someone that got cheated on by someone they loved that everything will be ok? My sister just found out that her boyfriend cheated on her. She did all this on and off dating with him and kept taking him back. After the first breakup I told her to not take him back, but she did. I backed off and let her and him date again. The second breakup, I really laid into her about why she should not give him another chance, but she did. Just recently, things between her and her bf have been “unknown.” She would ask him wut is going on with them and he would just say, “Uhhh! Do we have to talk about it now? I am tired. We have talked about this before.” Basically, he was doing what I told my sister he was doing. He knows how to keep a “good girl” like my sister wrapped around his finger and how to keep himself some nasty s**** on the side. She did not believe me, but she does now.
My question is, what do I say to her? I got the impression, from her conversation with me last night, that she was ok because she did not cry when we talked about it. She was totally opposite! She was strong and angry when she talked. She called me this morning on her way to work to talk and she started to cry. I felt bad and went and bought her a rose plant, a balloon, some dark chocolate from Fannie May and Pixies from Fannie May. I just need to get a card. I hate the cards the grocery store has and Hallmark is too expensive. Plus, my sister likes homade cards. I do not know what to say to her in the card.! HELP! LoL!
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