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JackieMa
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Words for someone who got cheated on.

How do you tell someone that got cheated on by someone they loved that everything will be ok? My sister just found out that her boyfriend cheated on her. She did all this on and off dating with him and kept taking him back. After the first breakup I told her to not take him back, but she did. I backed off and let her and him date again. The second breakup, I really laid into her about why she should not give him another chance, but she did. Just recently, things between her and her bf have been “unknown.” She would ask him wut is going on with them and he would just say, “Uhhh! Do we have to talk about it now? I am tired. We have talked about this before.” Basically, he was doing what I told my sister he was doing. He knows how to keep a “good girl” like my sister wrapped around his finger and how to keep himself some nasty s**** on the side. She did not believe me, but she does now.

My question is, what do I say to her? I got the impression, from her conversation with me last night, that she was ok because she did not cry when we talked about it. She was totally opposite! She was strong and angry when she talked. She called me this morning on her way to work to talk and she started to cry. I felt bad and went and bought her a rose plant, a balloon, some dark chocolate from Fannie May and Pixies from Fannie May. I just need to get a card. I hate the cards the grocery store has and Hallmark is too expensive. Plus, my sister likes homade cards. I do not know what to say to her in the card.! HELP! LoL!

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somanywalls_solittle offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (6 minutes after post)

just tell her that no matter how many boys or men (which ever suits the age) go through her life, you’ll be the one standing with her and holding her up when she feels like falling down.

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JackieMa offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Gurnee, IL, US | 4 months ago (16 minutes after post)

thats good!

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somanywalls_solittle offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (3 hours, 13 minutes after post)

thanks

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JackieMa offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Gurnee, IL, US | 4 months ago (19 hours, 28 minutes after post)

Just so you all know, my sister got the plant, Smiley balloon, chocolate, and card i made for her. She cried! I felt bad that she cried, but then i was glad too cause I know that it made her feel better. She went to go change into her pajammas yesterday and did not see it at first because she was changing in the dark. Her fan was going and she felt something hit her head (the balloon) and she said that all she saw was this thing bouncing and smiling at her. She went to go turn her light on and saw all the stuff I left for her. She came downstairs with a red wet face and then watched the “Bucketlist” with my family and I. It was a good day! :o)

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