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How selfish of your mother.

I don’t see how they can make you move if you don’t want to. If I were you, I’d stay at a friend’s house until they decide to see things my way. =P

How many posts have you made today? The same anonymous pic has been coming up all day.

thep wrote:
How many posts have you made today? The same anonymous pic has been coming up all day.

Thep, I keep noticing that too and it changes. I think people who end up with that anonymous picture have hidden or changing IPs like AOL users. This person’s picture changed, it’s not the same person.

OK,thanks for the info.

thep wrote:
How many posts have you made today? The same anonymous pic has been coming up all day.

This one looks like a swastika.

Killing yourself over moving is so incredibly stupid. Seriously, sit back and think about what you just said.
“Oh how tracig this little child died. Why did she die”
“She didn’t want to move.”

When we are children we have to do as our parents tell us, when you reach the age to please your self what you do with your life, is the time to start thinking of moving where ever you want to.
Trying to kill yourself or talking about it, untill you know what the situation is going to be like, is not a good thing to do.
After you have moved and given it a try is when you should decide to say to your mom about it.
So be brave and give it a tryout first.

I understand your unhappiness in moving. There is so much to live for, you even said so yourself. Of course if your mother hears that you feel like killing yourself she is going to cry… she does not want to loose you, she loves you very much.

I’m curious exactly how much of your mothers situation you understand. It seems that your father is out of the picture. Do you really understand what it is like to raise a child in this day and economy. This recession we are living through right now is so very close to a depression it’s not funny… An economy so bad that people are simply abandoning their homes and moving away. Thousands upon thousands out of work, and unable to gain employment. Prices of everything on the rise… impossible to fill a gastank because it’s not in the budget.

Your mother believes she has found love, and she now has the ability to make her life AND YOUR life easier, by joining forces with someone she loves. Have you considered for one moment that she is doing this in part FOR YOU?

How selfish of you.

I feel you, it’s never easy accepting new family members. I have a very close friend who had his parents divorce, and both of them remarried. It wasn’t an easy transition for him, I could tell, but he made it alive and fine. He always had his friends like me there, though, so he wasn’t alone. I’m sure you’ve got a few of those for just that purpose, too.

its not the end of the world. you’ll live. suicide would be stupid. at least you have a place to live. you and your mother are being selfish.