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I like my best friends crush!

I don’t know what to do. I like my best friends crush. and i’m not sure if he’s into me? how can you tell if a guy likes you and what should i do if he likes me. i reli like him…but i don’t want to lose my friend. help!

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

You could always tell your friend and make a deal that if she doesn’t do something in a month, you will.

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katierox77 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (7 minutes after post)

she doesn’t know i like him i pretend 2 hate him b.c. i am afraid she would get mad.

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (10 minutes after post)

If you can’t be honest with your friend, what kind of friendship is it? Wouldn’t she be angrier to know you lied? Why not just say she’s got great taste, and you’ll give her first crack at him because she’s your friend… but in a month, you want to have a go. By then maybe you’ll feel differently about him anyway.

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steff offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 174 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (11 minutes after post)

FRIENDS BEFORE BOYS!

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katierox77 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (11 minutes after post)

o ok i’m just scared she will hate me

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kim. offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (13 minutes after post)

steff wrote:
friends before boys!

Yes!

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katierox77 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (14 minutes after post)

how do yu know if a guy likes u

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kim. offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (14 minutes after post)

katierox77 wrote:
o ok i’m just scared she will hate me

Why would she hate you?
Trust me, she will probably only be mad because you /didn’t/ tell her.

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katierox77 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (19 minutes after post)

o ok

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kim. offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (26 minutes after post)

Hm, well, back to the boy:
Are you already close to him?
Like, are you two friends?

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katierox77 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (31 minutes after post)

kinda today when we played truth or dare he was the only one that realized i didn’t go yet and we were doin things like i dare u to hug this person thing

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katierox77 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (32 minutes after post)

i want 2 become good friends and do u know what signs are that a boy likes you

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steff offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 174 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (50 minutes after post)

Friends before boys, allllways!

erin offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Augusta, GA, US | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 42 minutes after post)

beastv wrote:
your an idoit who trys to stealin there best friends crush. get a life and find someone else. you have no respect for friend tryin to steal her boyfriend.

Hey hey hey, wait a minute before saying mean stuff like that.
First of all, the guy has no girlfriend yet. The poster and her friend just have crushes on him.
If the other girl WAS his girlfriend, THEN you’ve got to throw some sense into the one who still has a crush on him.
But not now. That was totally uncalled for.

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erin offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Augusta, GA, US | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 42 minutes after post)

okay, my last reply was in moderation for some reason, so I’m going to just retype it…

“Hey hey hey, wait a minute before saying mean stuff like that.
First of all, the guy has no girlfriend yet. The poster and her friend just have crushes on him.
If the other girl WAS his girlfriend, THEN you’ve got to throw some sense into the one who still has a crush on him.
But not now. That was totally uncalled for.”

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erin offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Augusta, GA, US | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 43 minutes after post)

there.

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kim. offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 47 minutes after post)

steff wrote:
FRIENDS BEFORE BOYS, ALLLLWAYS!

once again, I couldn’t agree more with you on that one! ♥

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jessica33313 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (2 hours, 58 minutes after post)

stop thinking about the guy..once you like him and she has a crush on him…forget him..because friends will always be there for you…boys are just pain..lol

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jessica33313 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (2 hours, 58 minutes after post)

erin wrote:

beastv wrote:
your an idoit who trys to stealin there best friends crush. get a life and find someone else. you have no respect for friend tryin to steal her boyfriend.

Hey hey hey, wait a minute before saying mean stuff like that.
First of all, the guy has no girlfriend yet. The poster and her friend just have crushes on him.
If the other girl WAS his girlfriend, THEN you’ve got to throw some sense into the one who still has a crush on him.
But not now. That was totally uncalled for.

yeah that was uncalled for..geez that’s so rude

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jessica33313 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (2 hours, 59 minutes after post)

katierox77 wrote:
i want 2 become good friends and do u know what signs are that a boy likes you

the signs is if he stares at you and always want to be by you and if he acts shy…but then again don’t think about that….just think about your bff

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downman1 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (5 hours, 4 minutes after post)

if she don’t make a move ask her if you can have him. But there are plentuy of fish in the sea… don’t intrude if she does get somthing from him. that breaks the code

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katierox77 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (23 hours, 51 minutes after post)

i’m sorry but i just do i will try to get over bhim are you happy it’s just that i think he likes me and i reli like him but i guess if she likes him i should stay away……any what is this code do u mean the code that u can’t date ur friends crush and that u can’t date your friends ex. right????

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katierox77 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

beastv wrote:
u must have no respect for ur friends. if my buddy liked a girl i wouldnt try to go out wit her even though she liked. people seem to be forgeting dat ur friends r bofore stuff like dat. so go ahead and betray ur friend see wut happens

ok i won’t go out with him……just u don’t have 2 b so mean about it….goodness!

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Deąth offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (4 weeks after post)

steff wrote:
friends before boys, allllways!

Bros before hoes
Transformers ftw!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 months after post)

im in the exactly same position right now ..but my friend has a bf and she still has a crush on this guy .. im telling you i know exactly how you feel.. just talk to your friend and explain but if shes really into this guy i wudnt risk it unless she understands if not then dont go there .. a friendship is more valuable than a guy

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ortinasanche offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (3 months, 2 weeks after post)

i have the same problem, maybe you should wait a while and see what happens. i’ve had it for over a year now and it’s painfull. and my friend makes me feel worse about it. so distance yourself from BOTH of them. take some time off. and if your friend does go out with him just remember dating may or maynot last that long.

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marykathryn21 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (1 year after post)

You people are annoying, its a simple question. I’m sorry but its like 1 in the morning and im looking up random crap. Heres what I’ve got to say. She can’t help liking him, so what she needs to do is tell this to her friend, and since they both like him, neither should date him. That prevents drama. Hard, i know, but still. And that whole truth or dare situation, immature. Anyone could’ve noticed you hadn’t gone. It doesn’t prove he likes you.

Take no offense to this, but you all sound like a bunch of 10 year olds.

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stormirenaycrouc offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 year, 3 months after post)

kim. wrote:
Hm, well, back to the boy:
Are you already close to him?
Like, are you two friends?

yes the other day he told me i was his best friend

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www.ne offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 year, 4 months after post)

thankz

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midnightblu offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (1 year, 4 months after post)

wel i had a freind in da same situation n she wnt tel her friend tht she likes the same guy cuz shes afraid but my point is my friend hasn’t taken any chances trying 2 get wit da guy even if she had one just becaues of her friend tht likes him n if she got mad about tht, how do u call her a frend ? n yea frends b4 guys unless ur frends a u no wat crying ovr nothing drama queen i’ve had tht not friends wit dat girl no more n i chose ma bf who i broke up wit but i nevr liked her 2 begin wit

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