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i have two best friends Kathy and John.
Ive known Kathy for the longest time ever and shes the best friend that i could ask for. two years ago me and Kathy met john for the first time and they started going out. At first this was a problem because i had a crush on kathy at the time. I managed to get over it and we all became close friends. John is now the best friend i could ever ask for, its hard for me to tell which of hte two i am closer to. They are my life and the reason i get up in the morning. They are y i breath air or even bother to leave my house. Now here is the part where things start to go wrong. Me and John have gotten to the point of closeness that passes the average straight best friend relationship (i would compare it to JD and Turk to any Scrubs fans haha) we would often do things (non sexual) that most guys would never do 2gether (examples: i ahve a strange habit of takin his socks off with my teeth everytime we hang out, wen the three of us hang out john usually ends up takin turns lying on either me or Kathy. Although i am surprised Kathy is over all cool with this and doesnt mind “sharing” him with me. btw i dont connsider myself to be gay and this isnt a rant over wheather i am gay or not. but its passed the point where its now ruining my relationship. the other day i found myself (keep in mind that as bad as it sounds its still non sexual) trying to rip his pants off of him. and it was also the first time in my life that he has acutally told me to stop and made it clear that he was annoyed. i already apologized many times over and hes forgiven me. but i realized that i need to take a few steps back and “break up” with John. just the idea of this is killing me however as one of my favorite parts of this relationship was the uniquness of it. how there were no boundaries, the one place where i could be myself 100%…….. i feel like im losing my best friend and im concerend with what will happen to my realationship with Kathy if me and John do have a falling out…… i havent even decided on anything yet and i already miss him even if we still hangout after the breakup things wont b the same idk if im making any sence but i just needed to talk to someone anyone
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