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What makes a good boyfriend?

just a little question i had in mind

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lindseysavvy offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

I think someone who loves you for you, that you can trust fully, that does the little things that makes you smile, and can get along with your family as well as you

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Rowass (The Great) offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Are you a guy or a girl? My guess: guy

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i love Tigger!!!!!!! offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (14 minutes after post)

a perfect bf(something i got off another site)

� give her your hoody even if you go to different schools.

� give her a big tshirt of yours to sleep in.

� leave her cute text messages.

� kiss her in front of your friends.

� tell her she looks beautiful.

� look into her eyes when you talk to her.

� let her mess with your hair.

� just walk around with her.

� forgive her for her mistakes.

� look at her like she’s the only girl you see.

� hold her hand when you’re around your friends and in private.

� let her fall asleep in your arms.

� stay up all night with her when she’s sick.

� watch her favorite movie with her.

� come up and grab her by the waist .

remember this:

� don’t talk about other girls around her. If you love her, others shouldn’t matter.

� when she’s sad, hang out with her.

� let her know she’s important.

� kiss her in the pouring rain.

� when you fall in love with her, tell her.

� and when you tell her, love her like you’ve never loved someone before.

� answer her phone calls no matter what

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Rowass (The Great) offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (16 minutes after post)

imagrl wrote:
a perfect bf(something i got off another site)

� give her your hoody even if you go to different schools.

� give her a big tshirt of yours to sleep in.

� leave her cute text messages.

� kiss her in front of your friends.

� tell her she looks beautiful.

� look into her eyes when you talk to her.

� let her mess with your hair.

� just walk around with her.

� forgive her for her mistakes.

� look at her like she’s the only girl you see.

� hold her hand when you’re around your friends and in private.

� let her fall asleep in your arms.

� stay up all night with her when she’s sick.

� watch her favorite movie with her.

� come up and grab her by the waist .

remember this:

� don’t talk about other girls around her. If you love her, others shouldn’t matter.

� when she’s sad, hang out with her.

� let her know she’s important.

� kiss her in the pouring rain.

� when you fall in love with her, tell her.

� and when you tell her, love her like you’ve never loved someone before.

� answer her phone calls no matter what

Oh my god you just made me cry! I haven’t been able to cry in like three years but now, tears. Thank you.

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kmichelle offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (16 minutes after post)

Something I wrote a while back, to copy off of their ^ idea:

I want a boy who would move the hair away from my eyes, and then kiss me,
Someone who’d hold my hand just to make all the other girls jealous.
Someone who would sing to me at random moments,
Who would let me sleep on their chest, and say how cute I was when I woke up.
I want a boy who would get mad at someone if they called me ugly or was mean to me.
I want someone who would call me 3 times a day if he went away.
I want someone who would let me rant to him and would just smile and agree with everything I said.
He would throw pillows at me when I acted dumb and then KISS ME A MILLION AND ONE TIMES.
He would make fun of me, just to make me laugh,
And he would take me to the park and put his arms around my waist and give me bear hugs all the time.
He would tell his friends about the times we have together and SMILE when he did it.
And then we’d kiss in the pouring rain.
He would NEVER be afraid to say, “I love you.” in front of his friends.
We’d argue about silly things then make up with soft kisses.
I want a boy that would kiss me at midnight on New Years, and make the promise to stay with me the whole new year.
I want a boy who would cuddle with me on a quilt to count the stars.
I want a boy who would love to stay home with me when I was sick, and who would cook me dinner and pick out my favorite movie to watch to make me feel better.
Someone who would tell me I’m beautiful too often, just to make sure I believed him.
Someone who would never get tired of my insecurities, and never give up on trying to convince me that I was perfect.
Someone who would make me laugh like no one else could.
I want a boy who would buy me a ring on our anniversary, and get down on one knee, as if to propose, just to make a scene.
I want a boy who would make me mix CD’s of all the songs that remind him of me.
Someone who wouldn’t be afraid to call my father and ask his permission to date me, without me even knowing he was going to do it.
I want a boy who would write me a sappy love poem, even if he couldn’t rhyme to save his life.
I want a boy who would bring the stereo, and serenade me underneath my window with the sweetest song he could muster, and use the pebbles against my window to get my attention.
I want a boy who would randomly give me massages and rub my stomach, just so he would have an excuse to touch me.
I want a boy who would pull my shirt down when it starts riding up, instead of the other way around.
Someone who respects me enough to not EVER push, and
Someone who loves me. Period.

But mostly,
I want a guy who would be my best friend and would never break my heart.

Rowass (The Great) offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (18 minutes after post)

You guys are making me cry.

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i love Tigger!!!!!!! offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (19 minutes after post)

awwwww

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (19 minutes after post)

omg kmichelle!! that was beautiful!!

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Rowass (The Great) offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (20 minutes after post)

I know that is why I am so teary-eyed. Do girls like guys who cry? I hope so.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (22 minutes after post)

not if they cry ALL the time. sometimes it’s cute. =)

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Rowass (The Great) offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Okay all try to man up. Jeese why does this move me so? I am that hopeless of a romantic?

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i love Tigger!!!!!!! offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (26 minutes after post)

oh my gosh! i just completely read the whole thing! wow!

rowass(the great) wrote:
Okay all try to man up. Jeese why does this move me so? I am that hopeless of a romantic?

idk if u are, but i know i am =) wat do you mean man up? i think it’s sweet that you’re teary eyed. i am too. =`)

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Rowass (The Great) offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (27 minutes after post)

Well I am a guy not a girl.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (28 minutes after post)

i kinda figured that lol =D

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kmichelle offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (28 minutes after post)

imagrl wrote:
omg kmichelle!! that was beautiful!!

Thanks. =) And you wanna know the best part?
I found that boy. =)

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Rowass (The Great) offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (29 minutes after post)

kmichelle wrote:

imagrl wrote:
omg kmichelle!! that was beautiful!!

Thanks. =) And you wanna know the best part?
I found that boy. =)

He is so lucky to have you and I hope he deserves you.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (31 minutes after post)

kmichelle wrote:

imagrl wrote:
omg kmichelle!! that was beautiful!!
Thanks. =) And you wanna know the best part? I found that boy. =)

omg! you are so lucky!!! i hope i get as lucky as you =)

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kmichelle offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (31 minutes after post)

How do you know he’s lucky? lol
I certainly hope I deserve him. =)

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Rowass (The Great) offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (34 minutes after post)

kmichelle wrote:
How do you know he’s lucky? lol
I certainly hope I deserve him. =)

I don’t know I think someone just shot me up with some estrogen and morphine. I am really emotional right now. It is weird.

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1 year, 5 months ago (35 minutes after post)

lol hey guys thanks 4 all this i posted this up but hey i got most of these things so thanks 4 reassuring me thanks 4 everything =]

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i love Tigger!!!!!!! offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (40 minutes after post)

Anon, r u male or female?

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Rowass (The Great) offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (41 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
lol hey guys thanks 4 all this i posted this up but hey i got most of these things so thanks 4 reassuring me thanks 4 everything =]

Your welcome but your post ended up helping me!

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1 year, 5 months ago (41 minutes after post)

male and glad i could help out buddy how old r u

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kim. offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (42 minutes after post)

This post made me cry too. D:

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Rowass (The Great) offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (42 minutes after post)

I am as old as love and song.

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i love Tigger!!!!!!! offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (42 minutes after post)

i was so close to crying!

rowass(the great) wrote:
I am as old as love and song.

=D u r not rofl

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1 year, 5 months ago (44 minutes after post)

hahaha oh wow thats definately goin up as a myspace post like one of them chain letters u know

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rocker_197 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (55 minutes after post)

Being a guy, I can only tell you how I am and the qualities that I look for in a woman. I would say that the qualities that I look for in a woman would apply to what a woman most likely looks for in a guy. For me, what makes the perfect relationship in general is good communication, honesty, compassion, sincerity, down to earth and respect for one another. I would say that would make the perfect relationship overall (boyfriend or girlfriend). I hope that I was of some assistance to you. Take care.

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1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour after post)

wat makes a good boyfriend?
Someone that makes u realize more about urself and someone who u can c urself in!
Then slowly…u c dat he is part of u and u, part of him.

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1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

oh well thanks alot guys u really helped out well laterz cuz its freakin late and i gotta see my girlfrien tomorrow don’t wanna look all tired u know but man i never thought this post would get so much feed back congratz to all

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i love Tigger!!!!!!! offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
oh well thanks alot guys u really helped out well laterz cuz its freakin late and i gotta see my girlfrien tomorrow don’t wanna look all tired u know but man i never thought this post would get so much feed back congratz to all

this is like my fav post right now!!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
oh well thanks alot guys u really helped out well laterz cuz its freakin late and i gotta see my girlfrien tomorrow don’t wanna look all tired u know but man i never thought this post would get so much feed back congratz to all

Thank you so much, and treat your girl nicely.

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1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

i will thanks every1

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i love Tigger!!!!!!! offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

rowass(the great) wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
oh well thanks alot guys u really helped out well laterz cuz its freakin late and i gotta see my girlfrien tomorrow don’t wanna look all tired u know but man i never thought this post would get so much feed back congratz to all

Thank you so much, and treat your girl nicely.

=)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

i want a man who will dance with me in the rain. and then sit inside with his arms wrapped around me.

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aguacatero offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

oh and in case u guys wanted to know this is my profile i feel like i can stop being anonymous

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aehtla offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Nassau, 23, BS | 1 year, 5 months ago (8 hours, 47 minutes after post)

hey michelle if you didn’t live on a different island from me I would think you were describing my bf

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 day, 23 hours after post)

chilipepper2 wrote:
bloody softies!

ya? and wat’re u gonna do bout it?

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1 year, 5 months ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

imagrl wrote:
i want a man who will dance with me in the rain. and then sit inside with his arms wrapped around me.

lol that’s a good scenario right there ^^

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (2 days, 12 hours after post)

lol if you don’t like it then unsiscribe

chilipepper2 wrote:
Umm if it is, I ain’t gonna do nuthin bout it sister….the damage has been done!

damage? wat r u talkin bout. we’re just talking. ur just being heartless. go away =)

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1 year, 5 months ago (3 days after post)

imagrl wrote:
a perfect bf(something i got off another site)

� give her your hoody even if you go to different schools.

� give her a big tshirt of yours to sleep in.

� leave her cute text messages.

� kiss her in front of your friends.

� tell her she looks beautiful.

� look into her eyes when you talk to her.

� let her mess with your hair.

� just walk around with her.

� forgive her for her mistakes.

� look at her like she’s the only girl you see.

� hold her hand when you’re around your friends and in private.

� let her fall asleep in your arms.

� stay up all night with her when she’s sick.

� watch her favorite movie with her.

� come up and grab her by the waist .

remember this:

� don’t talk about other girls around her. If you love her, others shouldn’t matter.

� when she’s sad, hang out with her.

� let her know she’s important.

� kiss her in the pouring rain.

� when you fall in love with her, tell her.

� and when you tell her, love her like you’ve never loved someone before.

� answer her phone calls no matter what

omg..that’s what my bf do to me :(….i’m sad because i’ve been a jerk to him lately…

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kmichelle offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 days, 11 hours after post)

Hey, aguacatero, lemme give you a hint also:
If you ever mess up w/ your girl, and she’s mad at you, theres nothing a dozen red roses won’t help. =D
I know, my boyfriend randomly showed up with some one Wed. night, and he gets infinite brownie points for that. =)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 days, 12 hours after post)

chilipepper2 wrote:
imagrl, I’m not being heartless! It was all a big old joke, your not really softies….I’m sure…..god, stop being a moo. :P

i added the smiley face cause i was kidding =)

chilipepper2 wrote:
imagrl, I’m not being heartless! It was all a big old joke, your not really softies….I’m sure…..god, stop being a moo. :P

wth is a moo?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 week after post)

i guy that would hold me when i cry and not mind if i soak his shirt in tears =)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 months, 3 weeks after post)

I have a gf and she said she loved me over the pone for the first time i said i love u to then she hung up do u think that she ment it we have only been dating for 2 weeks

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 months, 3 weeks after post)

kwallac wrote:
I have a gf and she said she loved me over the pone for the first time i said i love u to then she hung up do u think that she ment it we have only been dating for 2 weeks

no

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 months, 3 weeks after post)

do almost all that stuff and my girlfriend doesnt really care…

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 year after post)

my boyfriend is the bomb i wouldnt trade him for my life he:

Kisses me at random times

lets me fall asleep in his arms and whan i wake up he tells me how much he loves me

Stays right by my side at all times expecally rough times

He knows the secrets i could never tell

Always holds the doors open for me when we are ANYWHERE!!

pays for my dinner

when we dont go out he makes me dinner

He loves me for who i am and who i wanna be

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (1 year after post)

hey ppl u guys r so great thx to all the things i read (that means all the coments and replys) i decided my bf is a keeper lol he almost fit in all hte things u ppl listed as wat he should b or hav or do or act like ect. im so happy thx i feral all warm and fuzzy inside lol jk i dont feal warm and fuzzy inside but i should!

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Rowass (The Great) offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (1 year after post)

Wow I was a pansy on this post.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (1 year, 1 month after post)

how can you tell a guy that you like him without freaking him out. We work together so I don’t want to make it aukward. I am pretty shy and am afraid that he will reject me. We flirt alot and i’m the only girl he doesn’t get mad at at work, but i don’t know if he is just trying to be nice and friendly or if he is trying to secretly hit on me.What should i do?

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (1 year, 1 month after post)

Rowass (The Great) wrote:
Wow I was a pansy on this post.

Anthrax wrote:
yup

Like a homosexual who likes the Notebook.

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