beautiful help: Would you rather be beautiful or popular? - Help.com

beautiful then i can knock all the popular ******* at my feet, hehee =]

how:)

don’t you think if you’re beautiful, eventually everyone will notice (thus making you popular)?

not necessarily

why would beautiful people end up being hated?

I wan’t to be ugly and unpopular!

I wan’t to look like the guy from my avatar!

beautiful.

and it is possible to be both beautiful and unpopular, my best friend from grade school was very pretty, but very hated by most of the girls.

why wud they be hated?

Its a TOTAL cliche but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. My perception of beautiful is likely to be different to yours my dear…

Ah another hard question, If I was attractive I would probably have a chance at finding love, if I was popular I would have FRIENDS ! and people to talk to, dang thats really hard. I can’t choose

Anonymous wrote:
why wud they be hated?

well, the girl i knew was hated because she was accused of being a “backstabber” to one of the most popular girls. so everyone turned against her.

One of My best friends is (no offense) ugly to me. All of the boys liked her at once. But they found out that she can be a total meany sometimes. So now she is hated by like everyone excpet me and our other friend. But we are like the three most popular ppl in school because we are ALWAYS together. We do everything together even go to the bathroom together and everything (not the same stall lol).

But a lot of boys and girls tell me and my other friend that we are very beautiful. So its lke we are beautiful and popular and we are nice unlike our other friend. So we arent really hated. But to me it doesnt matter if im popular. I dont wanna be ugly. Well no one is ugly. Everyone is beautiful in there own way. Bstill…I want men to find me attractive. There we go.

But..If I had to choose. I would say beautiful than popular. Being popular gets you know where in life. Neither does beauty really. Beauty is only skin deep. But I would rather than be popular. I would feel much better knowing that i’m beautiful on the outside and popular on the inside. Ppl might know you for your personality and your kindness and not for your beauty and all of that other stuff.

beautiful..it means much more than to be popular :) If you are popular everybody knows everything aboput you ..you are in the “centre of the world”
If you are beautiful you may be in the centre of peoples heart :)

beautiful.

although, neither lasts.

you dont have to be beautiful to be loved though.

Anonymous wrote:
you dont have to be beautiful to be loved though.

you are right

Beautiful. I just think it would be nice to be admired. You can become “popular” with your own powers…you have no such powers with your face.

how does one become popular with their own powers?
many like to be desired. like when we go into a shop and see an item we’d like (desire) would u want people to be like towards you?

I’m just saying you can do all you can to a certain point to improve your looks…but it’s up to you to make friends.
And, yeah, I like it would be nice to be desired like an item in a shop.

If you’re really popular and many people desire you like the item in the shop, they can all grab hold and tug and pull and rip you apart. (I mean “you” generically.)

Michael Leibman wrote:
If you’re really popular and many people desire you like the item in the shop, they can all grab hold and tug and pull and rip you apart. (I mean “you” generically.)

i didn’t mean in the respect of how an item is treated. just i meant the desiring element to it.