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I feel like I’m being pulled into something that I don’t want to be in.

I asked this guy to my prom and I think he started to like me. Now he wants to hang on a regular basis, but I’m not really close to him and I don’t feel comfortable with him on more than a friendship level. Plus, I don’t like him like that in the least! I don’t want to hurt his feelings, either. What should I do?

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lespaulvoodu offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (5 minutes after post)

K, with guys you have to be 100 percent clear with your intitions. Woman have this way they can become close to a guy and not like him like “that.” Guys, are quite the oposite. 9 times out 10, if a guy is real close to the girl, he proboly digs her. that being said, be honest with, if care about the guy, then be honest. it’s for the best

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Help me with: Some politics yo!
Krizzzzzle offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (4 days, 9 hours after post)

are you a guy lespulvoodu? cause that is mighty interesting…

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lespaulvoodu offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (5 days, 1 hour after post)

indeed I am…I’ve just been on bolth sides of the question before

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Help me with: Some politics yo!

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