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Hm wat should i do for my boyfriend?

Ok so tomorrow is going to be exactly one month from the day we started going out. I love him sooo much! Im sooooo excited but i am leaving on vacation tomorrow so I wont get to see him. Is there anything I could do to celebrate with him from like 1800 miles away?

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Mr Foot offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 27 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (8 minutes after post)

maybe leave a letter or a present for him to open on the day?

soz… this isn’t really my area

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bfriend3 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Pleasanton, CA, US | 4 months ago (9 minutes after post)

its hard cuz he lives far from my house. and hes alwayz busy with swimming :/

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liblady offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (11 minutes after post)

month anaversary? cute. Maybe have a friend of yours show up with a picture of you two and his favorate dish? Sense he is busy?

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bfriend3 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Pleasanton, CA, US | 4 months ago (14 minutes after post)

ya i was thinkin of sendin him pictures

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bfriend3 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Pleasanton, CA, US | 4 months ago (17 minutes after post)

ya but idk if his does

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bfriend3 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Pleasanton, CA, US | 4 months ago (21 minutes after post)

ok sounds good :) thanx!

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4 months ago (42 minutes after post)

wow only one month..wait till 3 months and see if your still like that…hehe

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jessica33313 offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (43 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
wow only one month..wait till 3 months and see if your still like that…hehe

^^^ that’s me…stupid button

don’t forget to send him an ecard…

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lavendercat0 offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (44 minutes after post)

maybe a nice photo of you looking pretty. or if you want to get a little more risque..

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Rowass, Gone offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 533 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

Webcam?

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Seventeenraining offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

If you guys are away from each other right now, just send him a nice text saying how much he means to you, and then worry about gifts when you get back. I’m sure he won’t mind if the gift is a few days after the anniversary itself.

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bfriend3 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Pleasanton, CA, US | 4 months ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

ok thanx :)

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Mas1st offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 384 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

Wish him a big happy day by any way you can. Go mad text him, email him, write to him. Send him a proper postcard from every day of your holiday/vacation. Write ‘I love you (his name)’ in the sand and send him the picture (corny but cute). You are in love, truly hope he is the same, dont be shy and also tell everyone he knows what a great guy he is - those whispers travel fast and he will be complimented. Have a lovely vacation/holiday - Mas also buy him a necklace or bracelet on your travels and buy yourself one too - boys love that - they just pretend they dont - if he is a big swimmer he might not be able to wear it too often but it will be all about you every time he looks at it - hope that helps

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centralcoastsingles offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 hours, 37 minutes after post)

One month isn’t usually much to a guy. You need to see if he even notices it before you decide how big to go with this. If it is nothing to him, you may scare him only one month into it. I say play it smaller for now, send an ecard as suggested, and maybe an extra email with your picture attached (nothing that you don’t want shared with his friends). That night, call and chat with him like you normally would. That should do it. Other than that, it is up to him to reciprocate. Make the ecard nice, and about how you feel about him. In the email tell him how you wish you didn’t have to be far away, and you look forward to seeing him when you come back. On the phone, deal with how your day went, ask how his went, and tell him you look forward to seeing him as soon as you get back. Tell him you plan a “belated” anniversary dinner or something. Then when you get back go out for dinner, and talk about how you missed him but don’t go overboard.

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Mas1st offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 384 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 hours, 39 minutes after post)

Oh well I suppose that is the other perspective lol the sensible one.

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centralcoastsingles offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 hours, 46 minutes after post)

There is nothing wrong with sending a postcard every day, especially if it is a different destination each day. You normally do that with friends. It’s just that at one month, you don’t want to scare the guy and think you are a stalker lol. I live the idea of the picture in the sand, maybe for when you return with other pictures from your vacation. It really depends how deep he is into your relationship. If he is not as into it as you, it may scare him. If it was a year, I would be sure to ship him a present while you are gone with a note not to open until anniversary. Since it is not even the 1 month anniversary yet, you are talking about a 2 or 3 week relationship. To a guy, that’s usually just dating. You don’t know for sure until the 3rd month.

To a guy, relationships come with a return policy like shopping at Walmart. You get 30 days to be sure it fits your living room, and another 60 days to be sure it isn’t broken. After that, it’s serious lol.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

well..
me &&my bf
r alwayys txtin.
&&wat alwayys workks forr me
is sendingg longg
txts about howw much you rlyy
luv him.
&&pics r alwayss good.
theyy alwayys workk for mee.
but heyy its a different
guyy so what do i no..
hopee i helpedd.
oh &&happyy anniversaryy!..
=]]]

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lisa4eva2 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (2 months after post)

hehehe.. today is me and my bf 6 month anniversary….. :D

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Mas1st offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 384 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (2 months after post)

Wow - are we looking at this being the ‘One’? Congratulations - Mas

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