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Okay.

So in the span of the two or so monthes that I’ve not been on here, so much has happened that its actually too much… And it is a very long and confusing story… so… just warning you ahead of time. And, here it goes..

Okay, so my school band (yes, woodwinds. I play Bassoon), went to the Atlantic Music Festival in Halifax, Nova Scotia. And I was really really excited for the trip because it meant that i would get to spend 2 weeks across the country, with my boyfriend. And I must say, we had a really good time. But, at one point, we were on the tour bus and we were cuddling under a blanket (it was night) and we were kissing and stuff, it was real cute, but his hands started exploring in places i wasn’t too comfortable with. Its not that i’m a real goody-two-shoes or real reserved or something, i just wasn’t comfortable with him touching my boobs and eventually making it into my bra. And the next day, I told him (in a nice way) that I’d prefer if we didn’t do that anymore. And he got kinda mad but seemed to accept it. So, things were fine after that and we were on the way home, on the plane and we were cuddling and making out and being really cute and stuff, because the next day, he was leaving to go a trip with his grade (i’m grade 10, him- grade 9) and we were going to miss eachother and wanted to make the best of our time together before he had to leave.
So the next week came around and he was back from his trip, and I asked him one lunch if he wanted to hang outside and eat cuz it was nice and sunny but he was all like “no i don’t want to. I kind of just want to eat with my friends” and he walked away. And throughout that whole week, he was acting really stupid and not talking to me and almost avoiding me and stuff… so that weekend, there was this youth conference in edmonton, and we were both going with different churches and surprisingly we ended up sitting really close to eachother so that we could see eachother from where we were sitting. And the whole weekend, i was trying to talk to him and hang out but he was again, not wanting to. And so after one of the concerts, I pulled him aside, and got super mad and punched him in the arm and asked him why he was being such an *** to me and he flipped and we got in a big fight and literally, 15 or so minutes later, i looked up at where he was sitting, and saw him making out with a girl in his grade… and I obviously got really upset… and later found out that he had been cheating on me at his grade retreat thing…

so… yeah. So much for respect. So much for trust. So much for Love.

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4 months ago (3 hours, 41 minutes after post)

What a looser. You are best off without him

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (10 hours, 48 minutes after post)

So much for THAT love, not love in total. There are others, and many won’t treat you like that. Take some time to get over it, then get back on your feet and find someone who’s really good for you, someone who will treat you right.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (2 weeks, 5 days after post)

Thanks..
I’ve been moving on.. almost there i think

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