I mean yea im not planning to have another relationship untill college is done wich is 2 more years. But still its not that i want other girls rather than i feel that now im single girls dont want me. Weird i kno, thats just how i feel.
Yea i think my confidence is lost. I guess your right, in due time maybe i will feel better about myself. Thank you for the compliment. Be well.
3 Weeks isn’t long at all, give it some time, I’m sure the right girl will come along :)
yea i know its not too long, its just that ive been in relationships since i was 14 now im 21. I was with my ex for 4 years so this is new territory it feels weird and unsecure.
You’ll get used to it, but I’m sure there are other girls for you :)
You’re a good looking man (and this is coming from a guy!) so no problems with that!
thanks man i appreciate the compliment. I hope i get use to it ::sigh::
soldierxx, if it’s only 3 weeks, I think you have more luck with the ladies than most of us. I say you just need to explore around, maybe areas of your town or city you haven’t been to before. To me, looks like you’re a New Yorker, in which case I’d tell you to go to Astoria, Ive was there the other day and WOW, full of really good lookin chicks everywhere.
Oh my bad, you’re from FL, same thing though lol. FL, NY… you have hurricanes, we have acid rain. lol
Yea theres tons of good looking women here in Miami, but im not looking for a girlfriend or anything. Rather a friend someone i can hang with talk with and is not so superficial and stuck up. And yes i do have issues with girls because im extremely shy and insecure about myself. And it didnt help my ex went crazy on me everytime i spoke to another girl that i eventually just stop talking to any other girls period.
ooh, that’s never good. I’ve had an ex like that before. We only just met but she already started going through my room, where she eventually found a letter from a friend (pen pal you could say). And also went through my AIM buddylist and started questioning all my chick friends, ugh… And I’m no player or anything.
Anyway, in your case, I think you’ll eventually run into someone, no doubt.
:) thanks for the boost of confidence. Yup that girl sounds like my ex too, except sometimes id swear she worked for the CIA. LOL
lol oh man, talk about privacy..
There’s no rush matey, just be yourself and get out and about and you’ll soon find someone else. I used to be shy but i have found that just by becoming interested in what the girl is saying is a great way of getting them interested in you. Ask a lot of open questions,eg what? why? when? where? how? tell me.. describe…explain… and they will have to open up their answers instead of giving you a yes or no answer and this way the conversation lasts longer and they really think you are interested in what they are saying. You can also use the repeat question,eg she says, i love surfing in Tiger Bay.. you reply “Tiger Bay?”, this way she has to tell you about tiger bay
Just a good way to open her up and make you look good!
Good luck buddy
C’mon 3 weeks ?, try your whole life. Give it time and go out there and in no time you should find someone.
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C’mon 3 weeks ?, try your whole life. Give it time and go out there and in no time you should find someone.
Lol its not the 3 weeks. Think about it like this. Smokers are addicted to nicotine, without it they flip. Why? Mentally they are addicted and physically too. Well I was mentally addicted to my relationship and just breaking up and moving on aint so easy, and feeling like im still worthy of other people is also not easy. Oh also, dont you give up im sure the right girl will find you man. Just keep your head up.
Thats a real good analogy. I don’t know what its like cause I’ve never smoked so I don’t have the vaguest idea. What you should do is visualize there is another person out there, one near perfect of what you want better in every way flawed you former loves had, that way you will stray away from that mind set that they are the only one for you and make it easier to move on.
I hear ya dan thanks for the advice. On another not i read your post, from what i hear about you you sound like a good friend even though im a stranger your treating with respect and complimenting my words. Why dont you try doing this offline? Try being who you are online offline. You should not have troubles with friends or girls, people who understand these days are rare. You my friend are rare. Be well!
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