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I love my wife!

It sounds like an obvious thing to say, but those of you that know me will know that I have difficulties with monogamy. I love the fact that I can attract good looking women despite being married, but the irony is that had it not been for my wife I would have never had the confidence to speak with women!
Anyway, my point is that although I’ve not always been the best husband and I’ve often struggled with staying faithful, I want to be so much more for my gorgeous bride. And I wanted you all to know that.

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smoogie. offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 228 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

You sound like you have alot of passion. ( Sometimes too much it seems:) )

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~Nikki~ offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

thank you for such and honest post, after all the drama around here latley its refreshing to see! Im also married and boy is it hard work! anyway nice to see you today:)

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~lilies~ offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 328 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Yay for the love. :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

*hugs*

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

:D

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Mister Tony offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour after post)

you enthusiasm towards love is inspiring. i hope you and your wife have a great and amazing life.

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Shellfish offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 42 minutes after post)

I love your honesty.

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Shellfish offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 48 minutes after post)

Ah but they call you Cap’n (in a pirate voice) way cooler!

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sharkman offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 23 minutes after post)

I also have trouble with mahogany and the rest of the hard woods.

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Holy Raspberry offline Verified User (2 months, 4 weeks) Shouts: 24 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 6 minutes after post)

Savvy?

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Silverwings offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Adolphus, KY, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (7 hours, 1 minute after post)

Awwww that is sooooo sweet!!!!

I saw your other post, but, don’t think I ever got over to it…..

However, looks like things are going in the right direction you for ………

The rewards for faithfulness…..

are great !!!!

Many blessings….

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Ditzy offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
Ventura, CA, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (8 hours, 15 minutes after post)

YAY for Honest Roj!

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misca offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day after post)

Most people struggle with monogomay, but when you make a vov you make it. You approach this in an honest way, so congratulations for that and the love you have for your wife. I like the fact that you acknowledge that it is her influence that has given you confidence, and you repay that by the recognistion, and loving her more. I assume this post means you never berayed her trust, on or off line, so congratulations. Way to go. :)

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ladyphoenix444 offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 4 hours after post)

Good for you…seriously…as long as you realize that there is plenty of room for improvement as far as you is concerned then, BRAVO to you…nobody is perfect and everybody is different, but you seem to know your priorities now…fabulous…more power to you! :)

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joshman520 offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (4 days, 15 hours after post)

I want to support you with your struggle, this desire is common to many men and you are not alone. Your vows are sacred and must be respected and upheld. You know your weakness, respect it, and do not allow yourself to be tempted. Remove yourself from the situation when you feel the desire to be friendly to those other than your wife. Do this out of love and respect for your wife, marriage, and God.

Good luck,
Josh P.

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