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It may sound harsh, but if he is not willing to go against his families wishes - even at the age of 30 for you then I doubt his feelings for you are as strong as he says, or you beleive. If your parents where to forbid you from seeing him, would you continue to see him? If the awnser is yes then you seem to be sacraficing your happieness for his sake. You need to give him an ultimatum - either he goes against his family and goes with you, or he doesn’t get to see you. And you need to stick to that, because wether he knows it or not he is using you at the moment, and that is unfair.

This is tough. I think he is lost, as MJF said if he is not willing to go against his family for you he probably doesnt love you equally. Or rather his family union is more important. I wish that you didnt have to go through this it must be tough for you :( Ich Spreichen deutch so so. LOL

thanks you very much..both of you..I agree with you..he knows that I will always love him,and he always has a place in my heart but He will learn to balance his personal love life and his family..Eventhough the Family’s love is unbreakable but he should not defend his desire and our dream….it hurts both of us..but unfortunately it hurts me more..Thitima

Yeah, I think I would not settle for this too, since he still calls and sees you…. cut him off and let him realize he will truly lose you if he doesn’t take a stand with his family. He can’t have it both ways. Tell him it hurts too much this way and it’s not fair to you. And like the others said, if he will not stand up against his family, then that is the choice he made…. sorry it hurts… but don’t let him get away with keeping you on a string, even though he won’t stand up to them to be with you!!

It doesn’t get any better. If he is not man enough to be on his own from the family, it will overshadow your relationship forever. If anything ever goes wrong, he will blame you. His family may turn against him and he will blame you. You may have a child and if his family turns their back, he will blame you. Your child deserves a better family. Start with a better man. Then when you do have a child with the right man, his or her life will be better. Don’t start with this guy, move on. Another one will come along. Don’t even give him an ultimatum. Just dump him. If he really does love you, he will come groveling to you. Tell him to go away. You will do better.

yeah , he is too weak..cuz they spoil him too much i don`t like their attitude..they say all thai girls are prostitude..i can also say all germans are Nazi.But i never think that way..

..they want him to be with a perfect woman.but i am sure he will never find one..cuz highso. life is so boring and empthy…i learn now to move on..eventhough he’s still calling. I am still angry with him cuz he is too weak too lead me..

thanks