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just another stupid relationship problem.

ok, so my last boyfriend had this weird awkward vibe going on. well actually he didn’t the relationship itself did. we broke up for obvious reasons. now i’m worried, that maybe all my relationships will have that awkward vibe. because it’s not like he did anything wrong, really, he was like the perfect boyfriend, but something wasn’t right. what i’m trying to say is that im worried it’s me that has that awkward vibe.

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Indigo_Rain offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Ooh. The “awkward vibe”. I’m familiar with that cosmic ray. But I have to say, rarely is it my fault. I find that the awkward vibe is your body’s way of saying something is wrong. Even though it seems like it’s your fault, it’s probably not. It might be because he was perfect, but not for you.

Good Luck on your next relationship, at least.

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IamArn offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Glasgow, V2, GB | 1 year, 5 months ago (12 minutes after post)

if the spark aint ther it aint ther hun, nuthin u can do about it.

it isnt nethin wrong w u, its a natural thing, kinda ur way of knowing when to move on.

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:kay: offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (14 minutes after post)

thanks, that’s what i’ve been trying to convince myself. :)

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IamArn offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Glasgow, V2, GB | 1 year, 5 months ago (19 minutes after post)

its np, and i guess u kno im rite aswell, u just are feeling a bit guilty about it all, and/or missin the feeling of bein in a relationship.

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1 year, 5 months ago (47 minutes after post)

If it’s your awkward vibe then the next time you break up with someone you can use the “it’s not you it’s me” line. This could work out quite well for you.

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:kay: offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

haha thanks ill give that a go

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CALi-GiRL offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 days, 4 hours after post)

N0 it wasnt y0u that had the akward vive 0r him
The pr0blem was that he just wasnt the 0ne f0r y0u.
Y0u b0th are perfect but n0t f0r each 0ther….
F0r s0me0ne else y0u are everything.
&& trust me when y0u find y0u night and shining arm0r
There will be n0 akward vive everything will be right
S0 keep y0ur head up && search f0r y0ur prince charming!!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (3 days, 23 hours after post)

Hey>>> I wouldnt worry about it. If its not ment to be then its not ment to be. You will know when its right cause that awkward vibe would not be there. Maybe he’s just not the one for you. Good Luck!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

if someone is perfect for you but there is just something missing then he isnt rlly perfect. dont stress. not all your relationships will end up like that. someday you will find a guy who fits you perfectly but dont rush it.

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