Love help: For Guys - what do you like in a girlfriend? - Help.com

Nice smile, Cute eyes, Outgoing, ambitious, dorky, honest, loving , caring and still be SEXAY!

in a sense, its the way she makes you feel. however, thats not a fun answer :p

my perfect cut-and-pasted-from-a-newspaper girl would have the following;

ambition, oodles and oodles of creativity, imagination, happiness a sense of humour, an element of shyness, she has to be nice, EXTREMELY understanding, loving, sweet, curious, nice hair, nice eyes, a really nice butt, she has to be classy but fun, open minded, proud to be her, deepness, honestly, the willingness to put effort into something she cares about, the potential to be anything she wants to be…with a little bit of pushing. rich! i like girls to be like, not the tomboyish thing which is becoming more and more popular. i want to be able to chase her through the street (for fun, obviously) without her feeling embaressed and stupid. i like to play stupid games just because…and for her not to laugh derisively. i like her to be able to feel/share her emotions opening, talk intelligently, basically, not have much anger or hate or negativity in her soul.

the things that make me wanna istay with her; understanding and deep feelings, and a really nice butt.

the things i notice first; hair, eyes, sense of humour, for some reason i am attracted to girls with a broken past, and a really, really nice butt :)

oh and im slightly, ever so slightly picky :)

I look for someone I can relate to with similar interests and with whom I can hold a conversation. I look for someone I find attractive. I look for someone who I can see myself being with for a while and working with. I look for someone who enjoys my company as I enjoy hers.

Although, im not looking rite now :P…. already found her.

She has to be obedient in all things. Must never moan whinge or complain about me. Talk when allowed to. Do everything for me, that makes me happy, never upsets me. Tells me and means it, that I am the best person and thing in the world and that I am wonderful.
That is the first very basic requirement.

Seriously though, just being herself, liking others with tollerence and kindness, love life and nature, looks dont matter to much but self respect, respect of other people and the world about them does.
These quallities are plenty enough for me to want to stay with her

Oh and to what i keep noticing, i keep noticing how her being happy makes me feel really good and how her smile makes everything seem alright. THat makesme wanna stay. You know though I’m not so romantic that i’ve ever seen a girl and immediately gone i wanna date her. Usually it starts with friendship for me and hten if i get to know someone and enjoy their company and are attracted to them, i take the next step.

No. i thought i had once, but it turned out to be my pillow. Nevermind :)

No still looking for that one. Found the second one though, that lasted for 9 years, then something changed. Those 9 years were very special and something I will cherrish forever.

I like girls that have a sense of humor. I want them to be original, and appreciate originality in others. Good taste in music and/or movies is a plus. I like her to not nag, but at the same time not let me get too carried away and get away with stuff.(that’s a fine line)

I’m very unorganized, so if they are at least a little organized and even willing to help me here and there.

They have to not mind that I’m different, and see things in a different way. If they can see things in the same kind of different way that’s great too, but not necessary.

I like girls that like to have fun and have a good time. I like them to be able to appreciate other people’s strange unique character quirks. I don’t like them to put on a show of trying to show people how weird they are. But if they are just naturally weird, then that’s great.

I like teasing, and joking around with people, so if they aren’t defensive, and can take a joke that’s huge. If they can dish out some good jokes that’s a bonus.

I need people to be on my wavelength. Relationships are only good if you can trust so faithfulness is big on the list; that way both people have the freedom to do whatever they want with no worries.

Everything else is just compatibility, there’s someone for everyone .. I hope.