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my boyfriend is moving 6 hours away.

and he says he wants to stay together and i want to too but i just get scared that once he gets there he’ll just stop talking to me. idk he keeps telling me he wont do that and im really trying not to but its still hard. is it normal does everyone have these fears when theyre bf or gf is moving

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island girl* offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

I share the same feelings with smokenbowl. I did it and he lived 13 hours away, its hard but worth it if you both work for it.

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rawritschelsea1 offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

so its normal to like worry that he will just stop talking to me. like deep down i dont really think that will happen but i cant get it out of my head. he says he loves me and i do believe him and hes the one who told me he wanted to stay together in the first place. so do you think its jsut in my head

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Help me with: We broke up like 3 weeks ago, and we tried to be friends but what ever its not working.
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neway2 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 month after post)

yes it is normal I’m going through the same thing only I’m the one moving but my boyfriend promised we will be together forever . nd I’m willing to make it work if he is .

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rockboy2 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 month after post)

wow don’t worry about it me and my girlfriend been going out since we were 15 and than she moved 4 hrs away but were still together since this day and I wouldn’t want to be with anyone else. she is the only one for me and I promised her that we will stay together no matter what. I mean if you really love the girl asmuch asyou say you would do anything forever and be there for her as much as you can. especially if you promised her that you will be with her forever. I mean were 18 now and were planning out wedding its dumb to make a few miles come between someone you really love

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rockboy2 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 3 weeks ago (1 month after post)

wow don’t worry about it me and my girlfriend been going out since we were 15 and than she moved 4 hrs away but were still together since this day and I wouldn’t want to be with anyone else. she is the only one for me and I promised her that we will stay together no matter what. I mean if you really love the girl asmuch asyou say you would do anything for her and be there for her as much as you can. especially if you promised her that you will be with her forever. I mean were 18 now and were planning our wedding its dumb to make a few miles come between someone you really love

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