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Lol you’re like right where I am: totally not studying. My exams are on Tuesday too, but I keep telling myself I’ll study…eventually.

Think about fun, nice stuff, ok? Like…I dunno, ponies or something.

Or maybe ponies getting taken down by pony rebels.

I have no idea.

go rent a movie or something and chill. then make yourself do the work after. it sounds lame but if i make a snack or something it’s usually easier for me to study.. make it interesting somehow.

procrastination suxs but it’s so easy to fall into
just think of it as easy work and that you can get through it….

In the overall scheme of things, your exam is meaningless. Don’t sweat it. Nobody’s life was ever ruined because they did lousy on an exam…at least not much. In a few months you won’t ever remember the exam.

Slightly more constructive help (though it’s sort of hypocritical to be offering it I guess): try just doing it. Yeah, its stupid, but often I find that once I commit myself, I don’t stop.

If that fails, try distracting yourself from how much you don’t want to do your homework. Tell yourself you’re uncovering secrets from India or something while you get out your notebook. Tell yourself you’re conserving power when you shut down your computer. Eventually, you’ll be doing it.

Annnd then there’s that “go for 15 minutes, stop for 5, go for 15″ trick that supposed to work, but I sort of hate that method. They tried to force it on me once and my grades dropped.

Lol just be happy, Snar, ok? Send your gf a letter or something. Like a real letter, one that’s hand written. Girls love it when you show them that you’re still willing to do tiny stuff like that. Try putting a pointless box of candy in her locker. Or give her a trinket that shows you thought of her. (Lol, I love how I act like I’m not a girl myself.)

Good Luck.

What would Yagami light do? No, seriously just think about how good it feels not to have a time bomb ticking away at you. Also im sure your girlfriend would be proud to have a man thats responsible. NOW GO STUDY MAN!

Yep, but try not to score higher then her on the exams. If you do, lie and say you didn’t. Just being a point or two under will make her feel special. We LIKE being smarter then you guys, sorry.

Lol we’re probably distracting you farther.

Have you tried just taking a step back taking a couple huge breaths to clear your thoughts? Try meditating? Go for a walk? Write? Listen to music and do your work?

being upset is never great. Releasing it like you are doing helps I think. Venting is very powerful with the one’s who are willing to listen.