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i have stong fellings for a girl and we cant be together

for a few months still im moveing in with her but for now in stuck in ft bragg she is dating a guy and she said she like him but loves me and dont wount to date or have the cometment till im liveing with her she wounts me to move n with her but i dont under stand y she is dating this guy till i come home i told her that it hurts me to know that this is going on i y would she do this does she just have to have some one there iv beleave i love her but this is just showing me that she dont care for me should i go ahead an move in with her or should i try to move on i dont know what to do can some one help me with some advice hopefully from a ladys veiw

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (35 minutes after post)

I honestly couldn’t finish reading this. I’d be happy to offer advice, but punctuation and spelling are good for you. Use them.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (46 minutes after post)

I agree that it should be parsed better, but I think that just reflects part of the problem here. I don’t know anything about you, but your grammar and spelling speak volumes. Don’t take this wrong, because I mean this in a helpful way. I would guess that maybe this girl is playing you. She may be thriving on your attention and caring for her. She may just see it as a chance to get someone to help her with rent, or to use you. Do you send her money and gifts? Do you call her and tell her how sweet and pretty she is? She may be eating it up and making herself feel good, then going out with this other guy she really likes better. If she is dating someone else, move on. You don’t need that. Then once you get past that, take some time off for yourself. Spend some time on self improvement, self esteem, and education. You should make sure you are as much of a man and as educated as you can be. That is one thing a woman wants in a man. I say this woman is playing games, and having what she wants. I think you should just shine it on and move forward with yourself. Take a year or two to make yourself a better person, and someone she will regret missing.

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